Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 4:48 PM on Friday, October 15th, 2010
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
CanISurvive ( member #29788) posted at 9:07 AM on Wednesday, October 20th, 2010
D final 11/25/2011 -- on Black Friday! ;-)
Moved my stats to my Profile; click there for my story.
I am a Phoenix; I may be in the ashes stage at the moment, but I am now actively working on my Rebirth. =)
PS: I edit posts for typos & clarity
hopefully ( member #29906) posted at 5:48 AM on Saturday, October 23rd, 2010
Dear Serjr,
I am new but have but most of this into place already and I fully intend on using this as my plan of action. This post is perfect for all but especially us Newbies Thank You
Me:45
fWW:41
Kids 3 - 9, 15, 18
DDay : 10/16/2010
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 11:42 PM on Tuesday, October 26th, 2010
Buuuuuummmmmmmmmmmmmmmpppppp!
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
WHATDOIDONEXT ( member #29937) posted at 12:33 AM on Monday, November 1st, 2010
DDay Sept 12th 2010.
BW 47.
FWH 46 (Penitent95).
Married 5 years
2 DS's 1 & 3 years old.
2 SDD 17 & 19 years old.
As a phoenix rises from the ashes I to shall rise from embers that were once my old life.I shall rise anew. Stronger, wiser.
knockedsideways ( member #29859) posted at 4:01 PM on Monday, November 1st, 2010
How do you 'Bump"?
Does that mean put it to the front of the forum?
Good article serj.
Never before in my life did I feel so flattened and now this site has given me the strength ( as well as a rock of a friend) to get through this and pick up the pieces of a shattered heart
Me: BW (46)
Him : (F)WH (46)
D-Day 8th June 2010
23years of M (25 together)
2 teenagers
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 6:37 PM on Tuesday, November 2nd, 2010
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
knockedsideways ( member #29859) posted at 11:07 PM on Tuesday, November 2nd, 2010
Me: BW (46)
Him : (F)WH (46)
D-Day 8th June 2010
23years of M (25 together)
2 teenagers
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 3:18 AM on Wednesday, November 3rd, 2010
Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah
tsol25 ( member #29461) posted at 3:35 PM on Sunday, November 7th, 2010
me - tsol, that's all for now
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 7:46 PM on Sunday, November 7th, 2010
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
EasyDoesIt ( member #29514) posted at 7:27 AM on Monday, November 8th, 2010
Bumpin' baby I'm a bumpin dude bumpin oh yeah, bumpin
Anything less than full disclosure and total transparency is pure bullshit. WARNING! No emotional pollution allowed.
wonderingbull ( member #14833) posted at 5:58 PM on Monday, November 8th, 2010
The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...
James Taylor
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 4:19 PM on Wednesday, November 10th, 2010
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 7:22 PM on Wednesday, November 10th, 2010
I am new to the forum, but haave been lurking for quite some time. I want to say thanks already to SerJr, ThriveNotSurvive, Fallen, Wincing, Cee64D and many others you all have great wisdom... I hope I can use all this information and repair my life.
[This message edited by lordhasaplan? at 1:28 PM, November 10th (Wednesday)]
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 7:23 PM on Wednesday, November 10th, 2010
sorry for the repost! Just learning here 
[This message edited by lordhasaplan? at 1:24 PM, November 10th (Wednesday)]
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
hard_yards ( member #23549) posted at 5:40 PM on Thursday, November 11th, 2010
bump 
I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...
bigpicture3236 ( member #27861) posted at 12:22 PM on Sunday, November 14th, 2010
If you love something and hurt it dearly, then chose not to fix it...you never deserved it in the first place.
AttemptStrength ( member #27947) posted at 6:18 PM on Monday, November 15th, 2010
BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS
I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 3:47 AM on Wednesday, November 17th, 2010
Bumpin Serjr's wisdom for the newbies
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
