Dagny07 ( member #16928) posted at 10:10 PM on Sunday, June 15th, 2008
Me:BW Him: FWH E/A
M: 30 years, together 37 : both guilty of PAs 20+ years ago
CDay#1 Oct 06 (false); DDay#2 Oct 07 (truth from OW's BH)
R: Tenaciously optimistic
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 5:40 PM on Monday, June 16th, 2008
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
breakingheart ( member #19909) posted at 8:02 PM on Monday, June 16th, 2008
This definitely needs to be at the top of page 1. It is one of few posts that does NOT make me cry. When I am ready to take action...again.....this gives me focus.
ImGonnaMakeIt ( member #18277) posted at 4:21 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2008
BSO - 35
Together 5 yrs.
D-Day 1/6/12
Reconciling.
OC Born 11/2012
DD born 01/2014
I still love him but what I miss the most is the peace I felt loving him without the fear.
breakingheart ( member #19909) posted at 6:43 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2008
bump
Im gonna make it...love the quote
ArmyWife08 ( member #17668) posted at 8:38 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2008
Phill ( member #19490) posted at 3:11 AM on Wednesday, June 18th, 2008
As a matter of fact, someone ought to compile a "best of" SI posts. That would make for the best book on infidelity ever.
Hmmm... now THATS something to consider, isnt it...
(Really excellent points SerJR)
our5kids ( member #19906) posted at 9:51 PM on Wednesday, June 18th, 2008
AMAZING...........DEFINATELY SHOULD BE IN THE HEALING LIBRARY
me-BS-32 him-WH-37 kids- 5 his mine and ours(3together)
Phill ( member #19490) posted at 2:29 AM on Friday, June 20th, 2008
This post is so worth this... BUMP!!!!
burnt_toast ( member #16891) posted at 3:42 AM on Sunday, June 22nd, 2008
bump 
I may have not gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
- Douglas Adams
veryconflicted ( new member #19901) posted at 3:49 AM on Sunday, June 22nd, 2008
Thanks for putting this on the first page. I needed to read this. Very helpful
SerJR (original poster member #14993) posted at 12:06 PM on Tuesday, June 24th, 2008
Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.
socold ( member #17400) posted at 6:49 PM on Wednesday, June 25th, 2008
(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 5:25 AM on Saturday, June 28th, 2008
Bumping for the new ones tonight 
(((Hugs to you all)))
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
unfound ( member #12802) posted at 7:47 PM on Sunday, June 29th, 2008
bumping
ka-mai
*************
Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."
bbee ( member #17840) posted at 2:08 AM on Tuesday, July 1st, 2008
This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.
Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3
Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1
Sumrlady ( member #4355) posted at 3:53 AM on Tuesday, July 1st, 2008
Great one. I'd say 5 & 6 should happen at the same time, and I would give this stage 3 months max.
But then I'm bitter 
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover-Mark Twain
wonderingbull ( member #14833) posted at 5:46 PM on Tuesday, July 1st, 2008
The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...
James Taylor
Balancing Act ( member #19047) posted at 6:42 PM on Wednesday, July 2nd, 2008
Me - BS....living a wonderful new beginning and giving love another chance
Tulsa Area Coffee Buddy
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 8:42 PM on Friday, July 4th, 2008
Bumping for the new ones again.
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
