cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 1:22 AM on Monday, February 2nd, 2015
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
brkn_heartd ( member #30396) posted at 4:31 AM on Sunday, February 8th, 2015
Me-57 BS
Him 65-WS
Married 38 yrs, together 40
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10
devotedman ( member #45441) posted at 9:46 PM on Tuesday, February 10th, 2015
bump to keep with 20/20 hindsight post
Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 1:34 AM on Sunday, February 22nd, 2015
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 12:28 AM on Sunday, March 8th, 2015
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
oldtimer97 ( member #2365) posted at 5:59 PM on Friday, March 20th, 2015
“When someone shows you who they are believe them; the first time.”
― Maya Angelou
To save a marriage, you must be willing to lose the marriage.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 10:25 PM on Wednesday, April 1st, 2015
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Ginny ( member #43196) posted at 9:31 PM on Thursday, April 2nd, 2015
BW49
FWH50
DDay 11-02-13
Married 30 years
2 month PA/EA with COW
DS28
Trying to R
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 10:03 AM on Tuesday, April 14th, 2015
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 9:12 AM on Sunday, April 19th, 2015
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 8:21 AM on Monday, May 4th, 2015
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 8:26 PM on Wednesday, May 20th, 2015
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
Opinionsplease ( member #47624) posted at 8:29 PM on Sunday, May 31st, 2015
I like this
You enforce your boundaries, they decide with their actions if they want the relationship.
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 9:25 AM on Saturday, June 6th, 2015
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 10:24 AM on Saturday, July 4th, 2015
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 8:14 PM on Friday, August 14th, 2015
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 5:30 AM on Tuesday, August 25th, 2015
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 3:00 PM on Sunday, September 6th, 2015
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 34 years/Together 35 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 8:16 AM on Sunday, October 4th, 2015
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 5:44 PM on Sunday, October 18th, 2015
bump 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
