bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 5:44 PM on Saturday, May 7th, 2011
lordhasaplan? (original poster member #30079) posted at 9:21 PM on Thursday, May 12th, 2011
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 2:40 AM on Sunday, May 15th, 2011
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
lordhasaplan? (original poster member #30079) posted at 9:10 PM on Thursday, May 19th, 2011
whyme52 
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
annb ( member #22386) posted at 2:00 AM on Sunday, May 22nd, 2011
nooneeverthought ( member #20157) posted at 11:05 PM on Wednesday, May 25th, 2011
it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you
Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 6:53 AM on Monday, June 6th, 2011
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
*****
God's hand was an avocado branch
sherran ( new member #32233) posted at 7:28 AM on Monday, June 6th, 2011
thank you for your post. It makes things clearer for me, I need the boundaries to keep me strong.
Karma will kick him in the arse
BS 34
WH 35
together: 13 yrs
M 2 1/2 yrs
DDay 19/5/11
A & OW - not sure how long?? no answers given
lordhasaplan? (original poster member #30079) posted at 2:14 PM on Monday, June 27th, 2011
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
belladolcegirl ( member #32489) posted at 10:17 PM on Monday, June 27th, 2011
Thank you for this post. I can see a lot of myself in what you wrote and I will defintely be considering these points as I make my mind up to confront. Thank you for taking the time to share this!
hathnofury ( member #32550) posted at 10:48 PM on Monday, June 27th, 2011
Thank you for this. Very helpful. I need to put mine in writing, so it is clear.
BS 43, SAWH 38. M 15years, together 17. Body count in the triple digits. Both in recovery, trying to R.
Three kids under age 11.
Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 10:06 PM on Thursday, June 30th, 2011
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
*****
God's hand was an avocado branch
isadora ( member #29130) posted at 6:05 PM on Saturday, July 2nd, 2011
Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
jb3199 ( member #27673) posted at 7:11 PM on Sunday, July 10th, 2011
BH-50s
WW-50s
2 boys
Married over 30yrs.
All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary PuckettD-Day(s): EnoughAccepting that I can/may end this marriage 7/2/14
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 2:18 AM on Tuesday, July 12th, 2011
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 4:30 AM on Tuesday, July 19th, 2011
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 2:22 AM on Sunday, July 24th, 2011
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 11:15 PM on Wednesday, July 27th, 2011
MrsSprky99 ( member #32895) posted at 3:24 AM on Thursday, July 28th, 2011
lordhasaplan?
Thank you so very much for taking the time to post this information!!! Helps a newbie like me to get a hold of a seemingly out of control situation :)
BW (me) - 47
WH (him) - 53
Married - 14 years
3 Children - 25, 24 from first relationship & 10 y/o with WH
D-Day: June 11, 2011
lordhasaplan? (original poster member #30079) posted at 1:48 PM on Friday, August 5th, 2011
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
