sicatrose ( member #52243) posted at 7:24 AM on Sunday, September 11th, 2016
Better to be hurt by truth, than comforted with a lie.
Starsurges ( new member #55112) posted at 4:41 PM on Monday, September 12th, 2016
My birthday is November 4th :)
RoburCordis ( member #55218) posted at 10:01 PM on Thursday, September 29th, 2016
Me: BH 40
WW: 37
DD: Which one?
Separated and rebuilding my life.
'I’ve learned that life is one crushing defeat after another until you just wish Flanders was dead' - Homer Simpson.
AllButGone ( new member #53847) posted at 10:34 AM on Sunday, October 2nd, 2016
Me- BS 43
Him- WS 40
12 years
1st DD- Spring of 2009 and 5 years into our relationship
Subsequent DDs- I'm not good with dates and was still reeling from the first DD. Nothing but TT except for one.
18yearsgone ( member #54809) posted at 4:32 AM on Saturday, October 8th, 2016
My birthday is tomorrow - oct 8!
47 and in my late 40s! 
Me - 47
WH - 46
M - 18 years / together 22
Husband passed away suddenly in February.
Working on trust and betrayal stuff on my own now.
Dday 8/18 LTA online / sexting (18 months of secrets)
PA unknown
Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 4:05 AM on Sunday, October 16th, 2016
Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022
"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown
Isthereanyhope ( member #53948) posted at 3:35 AM on Monday, October 17th, 2016
Me- MH
Him- MH
Together 20 years (married 18)
Divorced!!!
TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 3:40 PM on Tuesday, October 25th, 2016
Today!!!!! Happy Birthday to me!!!!
XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 4:45 AM on Wednesday, November 2nd, 2016
Updated to here! 
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
dejavu2 ( member #54508) posted at 6:05 AM on Thursday, November 3rd, 2016
November 10th I'll be 45. Right around the corner...ugh.
GuyInPain ( member #55899) posted at 10:25 PM on Thursday, November 3rd, 2016
GuyInPain
Me: BH, married to fWW & committed to her 'till death us do part'DD1: EA, followed by TT & MCDD2: EA revealed as PA, followed by more TT & no MCDD3: TT ended, now FT; R underway + IC & MC
GeoHeart ( member #55800) posted at 11:43 PM on Sunday, November 6th, 2016
D-day: August 2016
Status: Trying R
DixieDiamondfly ( member #34830) posted at 4:40 AM on Wednesday, November 23rd, 2016
BS: Me, 56 yrs. young
XWS: Him, 60 yo
KIDS: 33 yo son, 31 yo son, 25 yo daughter...and three wonderful grandsons and a beautiful granddaughter.
Married 34 yrs.
D-Day #1: 2/8/12
D-Day #2: 7/16/2012
D-Day #3: 3/29/2015
Divorced!
Lnlygirl1698 ( new member #55706) posted at 6:41 PM on Sunday, November 27th, 2016
BW Me 48
WH 50
D-Day 5/16/16
OW Frmr HS GF
EA 1-2/2016 to 8/2016
M 18y tgthr 20y
2 DD's 17 & 15
Still in DEEP PAIN; not sure where the Winds will take me. Whether I get caught in the trees or I'm soaring to the clouds; I will be free.
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 1:22 PM on Saturday, December 3rd, 2016
Updating!
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
longforgotten ( member #48997) posted at 2:26 AM on Thursday, December 15th, 2016
My birthday is very hard for people to remember. Because it's so ordinary. July 4th.
RisingFromTheAshes ( member #56142) posted at 2:41 PM on Friday, December 16th, 2016
My bday is September 10. I'm already dreading it b/c pa started on the 9th. Oye.
You brought the flames and you put me through hell
I had to learn how to fight for myself
And we both know all the truth I could tell
I'll just say this is "I wish you farewell"
ont1throw ( new member #56534) posted at 5:40 AM on Wednesday, December 28th, 2016
December 6 ... it was fun as I didn't know yet
Me: M 41
WW: W38
Together 15 years, Married for 12
3 Kids under 10
DDay: Late Dec 2016
Affair: 11 months with COW, EA and then PA
atalosss ( member #47882) posted at 5:35 PM on Sunday, January 1st, 2017
Probably to late for an update but I feel like celebrating this year 🙌!
January 5th
"You can't ride two horses with one ass" Channel66
Backslider ( member #54066) posted at 10:15 PM on Saturday, January 7th, 2017
Me - BW 57, WH 58, OW 65 ha
M 28 years, D day 1/2017
One of us is working on the D paperwork, the other is dragging his heels "in case things don't work out." Spare me, I ain't no Plan B woman!
