Tred ( member #34086) posted at 2:00 AM on Wednesday, September 9th, 2015
Great advice. Almost WAL like 
. Bumping.
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 8:17 AM on Sunday, October 4th, 2015
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 5:44 PM on Sunday, October 18th, 2015
bump 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
caniforgive ( new member #49974) posted at 6:02 PM on Wednesday, October 21st, 2015
Thank you for this post. It helped me calm down and think about myself.
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 10:04 AM on Saturday, November 7th, 2015
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
mchercheur (original poster member #37735) posted at 4:04 PM on Friday, December 25th, 2015
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 34 years/Together 35 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
JRod ( member #50935) posted at 11:10 PM on Friday, December 25th, 2015
Thank you for taking the time to post this! As a Newbie, I am struggling, but folks like you make it easier.
Me: BH 55
Her: WW 34
Together: 8 years, DD-7
DDay: November 14, 2015
Confrontation: December 17, 2015 leads to TT
Current status: Attempting R with MC
"Someday, everything is gonna be smooth like a rhapsody, when I paint my masterpie
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:13 AM on Tuesday, January 19th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:26 PM on Tuesday, January 26th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:57 AM on Wednesday, February 3rd, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 8:51 PM on Wednesday, February 17th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Stillcoping71 ( member #51661) posted at 7:38 PM on Friday, February 19th, 2016
Great post. I can relate and appreciate you taking the time to write this and share.
Married 13 years
Second marriage for both of us
LTA- 3 1/2 years
D-day- 10/2015
Me: 45
WS: 51
5 kids
LinC37160 ( member #50603) posted at 7:55 PM on Friday, February 19th, 2016
BS(me) 57
WH 57
3 grown kids
3 grandchildren
M: 38 years
D-Day: 10/26/2015
SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 9:25 PM on Monday, February 22nd, 2016
Fiera ( new member #51900) posted at 12:26 PM on Tuesday, February 23rd, 2016
I agree with Caniforgive.
This post did calm me down from yet another morning of crying. I do need to focus on myself.
BW (me) 49. WH 48. M 4/18/03.
2 young sons; 3 older sons in their 20s mine from first M.
DD/confrontation 1/20/16.
EA/PA "on/off" (he says) since 2008.
OW married, 2 sons same age as ours, coworker/family friend.
TT continues; WH won'
Emotionalhell ( member #39902) posted at 4:23 AM on Friday, February 26th, 2016
Wish I would of seen this post a long time ago.
Bumping
Me BS x2. 50ish Divorced WH #1. IHS with wayward #2 Dday #1 Oct. 2014Dday # 2 August 2018. Dday #3 December 17th.
TheFallbackPlan4 ( member #48470) posted at 7:01 AM on Tuesday, March 1st, 2016
Great questions for BS to reflect on.
Thank you for posting!
Me: 40
Serial cheating XWBF: (ch2116) 42
2 kids of my own, 1 with him
Shatteredhearts ( member #51283) posted at 6:19 PM on Tuesday, March 1st, 2016
Amazing post. Thank you for sharing!
I don't need a life that's normal, that's way too far away. But something next to normal that would be okay.
BS (me):30
WH:33
Porn addiction for 14 years (found out day after we wed)
DDay1 EA 8/2
DDay2 EA, same COW 1/10
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 6:01 PM on Wednesday, March 2nd, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 6:59 PM on Monday, March 21st, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
