Topic is Sleeping.
Nambaster (original poster member #53565) posted at 7:48 PM on Friday, January 20th, 2017
I can mail you these books:
"The Seven Principles for Making a Marriage Work"
"How Can I Ever Trust You Again?"
Unfortunately I will not be needing them since the other party is not interested in reconciliation.... 
[This message edited by SI Staff at 7:17 AM, January 21st (Saturday)]
Happily married after divorce to a beautiful bride!!!
Jerkwad ( member #56604) posted at 8:40 PM on Friday, January 20th, 2017
Is this offer for wayward spouses also?
I am very interested in the books I just finished my first book that I was recommended on here!
(How to help your spouse heal from your affair)
I have found it very helpful and was just starting to look for more books to start reading.
I'm sorry to hear your WS isnt wanting to R
Me: WH
Her: BS
D-day: 11/21/2016
Together 7 years engaged 2
Randy1133 ( member #54958) posted at 8:47 PM on Friday, January 20th, 2017
I wonder if these self help type books ever actually help anyone.
Dday: May/Aug 2016
Divorced
'Even in a toothache there is enjoyment'- Dostoyevsky
Hawke ( member #47517) posted at 9:26 PM on Friday, January 20th, 2017
Jerkwad might be on to something. They might be most helpful in the hands of the wayward spouse!
Nambaster, sorry the books didn't help save your marriage. I know you tried very hard, but your wife turned into a dragon. Books didn't help my ex and me, either. May I suggest "Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends" by Bruce Fisher to fill in the gap left on your bookshelf? Or is too soon?
Me: BS (b. '75)
Him: exWS (b. '76)
D-Day: April 2015
Together 10 years
2 kids: 2011 and 2014
Separated (no divorce required for common law couple in my jurisdiction)
Nambaster (original poster member #53565) posted at 10:09 PM on Friday, January 20th, 2017
I am open to any suggestions. I just have no idea what to do other than to self care at the moment.
Happily married after divorce to a beautiful bride!!!
Nambaster (original poster member #53565) posted at 10:11 PM on Friday, January 20th, 2017
Jerkwad,
Send me a DM I am not opposed to WS... Aslong as they go to good use.
Happily married after divorce to a beautiful bride!!!
Hawke ( member #47517) posted at 10:22 PM on Friday, January 20th, 2017
Self-care and looking after the kids are what you need to be doing. The book by Bruce Fisher helped me work through denial, anger, letting go, etc. One of my favourite exercises was writing a goodbye letter to my ex, including the stuff I would miss and the stuff I would really NOT miss.
Me: BS (b. '75)
Him: exWS (b. '76)
D-Day: April 2015
Together 10 years
2 kids: 2011 and 2014
Separated (no divorce required for common law couple in my jurisdiction)
Trippd ( member #56128) posted at 10:43 PM on Friday, January 20th, 2017
Nam, I sent you a message.
Me: BS; Him:XWF (jerkwad); DS: 4yo
Together 7 years; current in home separation.
Dday: 11/21/16; 3 yrs of cyber & phys hookups
SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 11:17 PM on Friday, January 20th, 2017
HURTWS ( member #55491) posted at 3:50 PM on Saturday, January 28th, 2017
If your first book is still avail I would love to read it. My BS is willing to work on our marriage and I am trying to get everything and anything I can my hands on to read. :)
Topic is Sleeping.
