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zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 1:08 AM on Saturday, July 31st, 2021
What an abusive ass!!! How positively awful of him to make a comment like that to your DD. You and your children will be so much happier away from him and his family.
Stay strong and get him out of your house.
((((gotta))))
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 1:45 AM on Saturday, July 31st, 2021
Go back and get a VAR.
This motherfucker may come unhinged altogether. You need proof. Just in case he decides he won't go quietly into the night.
Please listen to the LCSW. Plan. Get all the important documents together. Get some cash stashed. Start making a legit plan with a timeline.
Lastly stay on here and post daily in one way or another so we know you are safe. Also make sure your family knows and do the same with them.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 3:23 AM on Saturday, July 31st, 2021
Very glad you set up an exit plan with the DV person. Please stay safe.
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 3:33 AM on Saturday, July 31st, 2021
Gotta, I'm so glad you've taken steps to get away from that bastard.
I hope that what he said to you about "human garbage" bounced off your shield of peace and hit him smack in the face, where it rightly belongs. You do know that whatever he says about you, he is really saying about himself.
Everything stbx ever accused me of, was in fact true about him. Even the nasty name calling is all projection. They hate themselves. The only solution, which you have begun, is to get away from them. You can do this. Stay safe!
[This message edited by WhoTheBleep at 9:34 PM, July 30th (Friday)]
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
nekonamida ( member #42956) posted at 4:14 AM on Saturday, July 31st, 2021
GGT, I am so proud of you and so very relieved that you are getting him out. See how resourceful you are when you need to be? Never let him take away your power. Never allow yourself to feel stuck and powerless again. You can do this.
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