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Clueless2023 (original poster new member #83054) posted at 12:42 PM on Tuesday, March 28th, 2023
Question to Mad hatters ? ——>
Sorry for these questions and sorry if they are triggering. Appreciate your answers …
Do you find yourself comparing to your WS and ever feel like you didn’t do anything that bad or as bad as they did? especially if you knew all the details of their affairs and based on that yours seemed like a minor offense?
Do you ( if you were second to cheat) ever find it difficult to be able to own up to your entire truth for fear of them going back to being a WS spouse again if they hear your stories?
Did your affairs start as revenge if you were initially the BS and then became a WS ? And can you say they remained so? Or did they morph into a EA and PA eventually on your own account?
Did you share how to an avoid cheating in the future with your WS/BS by setting firm boundaries for both of your selves ?
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BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 2:08 AM on Wednesday, March 29th, 2023
This member has reposted their questions in the "Madhatters Only" thread of the I Can Relate forum. As the questions are directed to fellow MH and only MH can post on that thread, we feel the OP's goals are being met there. We are locking this topic.
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