Topic is Sleeping.
ForgiveOrAccept (original poster new member #83866) posted at 4:18 PM on Wednesday, October 4th, 2023
Sincity, thank you. I am so sorry you are going through this. No one deserves to be betrayed by the person they trust with their heart. It feels hopeful that your WH and mine are doing the work to show they want true reconciliation. But that doesn't make it any less painful that our marriages and feelings could be changed forever.
Leafields, I'm sorry your WH didn't do the work. I have thought about the 6 month timeline as well to give myself until then to make a decision about whether to D. The happy ending was the first and only act of infidelity that my husband has ever done, and I do trust him on that. So, it feels like a D would be an extreme decision, but I also thought I would be further along with healing than I am. I know it is still a betrayal, but feeling like I'm no longer in love with him is scary and foreign to me. I'm praying my feelings come back because he is an amazing husband in so many ways. But I can't stay in a marriage that feels 'less than' and that's what I'm feeling now.
Thank you both for your input. I'm so thankful for this forum.
Topic is Sleeping.
