Topic is Sleeping.
Trumansworld (original poster member #84431) posted at 5:30 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2024
To all the WS's here who kept their betrayal a secret for years and years, how did it feel? How did you live from day to day for 20 30 40+ yrs knowing that your marriage was built on betrayal/deception/lie/shame/guilt. That the person you vowed to love and be faithful too didn't have a clue. Trusted you. Did you become the perfect partner or were you filled with such self-loathing that you held back and were never 100% vested? How did it affect you? There isn't much written on how secret keeping destroys the secret keeper. Appreciate your thoughts.
BW 63WH 65DD 12/01/2023M 43Together 48
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:53 PM on Friday, March 8th, 2024
You might get better answers from the thread 'BS Questions for WSes' in the "I Can Relate' forum.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Trumansworld (original poster member #84431) posted at 7:19 PM on Friday, March 8th, 2024
BW 63WH 65DD 12/01/2023M 43Together 48
Topic is Sleeping.
