Topic is Sleeping.
Dandylion ( new member #81112) posted at 4:28 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2024
Painful, my WH husband said something similar in our MC. He said with his own Sexting, "I didn’t touch her, I didn’t even see a video of her, I didn’t hear her voice. " Yet, they exchanged intimate pictures and he gave them/her (as there were a few online girlfriends) money. It took about a year of MC to get him to see the light because he didn’t want to get knocked off the pedestal I put this idiot on. I think they know in their hearts that if they had to hide the sexting, the hush money, etc. fron you and me, they were cheating. They had to see first what they could get away with saying because they are full of themselves still holding tight to the reputation they knew was awashed.
standinghere ( member #34689) posted at 8:59 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2024
most men don’t consider taking other women out on a date cheating
I think that this point of view goes along with the one that says "it isn't cheating if you don't get caught by your wife".
FBH - Me - Betrayal in late 30's (now much older)
FWS - Her - Affair in late 30's (now much older )
4 Children
Her - Love of my life...still is.
Reconciled BUT!
Topic is Sleeping.
