Topic is Sleeping.
InkHulk ( member #80400) posted at 7:10 AM on Thursday, May 16th, 2024
So if we are talking about the big life altering shit that impacts our WS’s from when they are children, I personally struggle with what to do with that. I have a deep belief that people have inherent goodness, and that we all have some shittiness mixed in. I personally can’t really imagine cheating, but I have done things that don’t fully align with my morals (use of pornography comes to mind, and throw in some speeding). Making a tie of some heinous shit that my STBXW experienced as a girl that has a fairly straight line to cheating, I still to this day have compassion for that. It’s not her fault that she was subjected to that shit. And somewhere along the line, at a point that no human can accurately define, she became responsible for the behaviors that came from that. And the destruction that she inflicted on me is utterly unacceptable. Those are clearly true, but I can’t fully understand the story from beginning to end, and that bothers me. I’m just going to have to learn to live with the uncertainty.
People are more important than the relationships they are in.
HellIsNotHalfFull ( member #83534) posted at 12:06 PM on Thursday, May 16th, 2024
Hiking out,
I feel strongly that you have hit the nail on the head. From my perspective, that is almost exactly how my WW went the path to an affair. And I’m willing to bet waited’s ex would say similar
Me mid 40s BH
Her 40s STBX WW
3 year EA 1 year PA.
DDAY 1 Feb 2022. DDAY 2 Jun 2022. DDAY 3/4/5/6/7 July 2024
Nothing but abuse and lies and abuse false R for three years. Divorcing and never looking back.
Topic is Sleeping.
