AdLarue17 (original poster new member #84917) posted at 2:45 PM on Thursday, November 7th, 2024
So I am spending two nights away from my WS at a work conference. One night down. It makes me anxious to be away from him for too long so this is a huge step for me. God I just want to feel normal!!!
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 9:31 PM on Thursday, November 7th, 2024
How has the time away gone for you? This may be a big positive for you. If it's not immediately positive, it may have effects that you don't realize are great for you until later.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 11:52 PM on Thursday, November 7th, 2024
You got this!
Your anxiety is totally understandable. You have been heard and understood.
What are you doing as a bit of self care for you on this trip AdLarue17? Something pampering and indulgent I hope [even if just people watching while sipping a really good cup of coffee]
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
