AnnieOakley ( member #13332) posted at 8:34 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2025
Definitely B & C.
My ex said he would do basically this but well before zoom, apps, texting, etc.
He was say flirty, suggestive, sexual innuendo comments and see how they reacted.
In a positive manner, it would get ramped up.
No response, or negative…he would stop and move to someone else another time.
Some people seem to refuse to admit what it really is, bcuz it’s not in person-per say.
Given his history-IMO-he knows exactly what he is fishing for. Even if it is just "harmless banter" to feed his ego.
Would he say those things in front of you? Doubtful.
Me= BSHim=xWH (did the work & became the man I always thought he was, but it was too late)M=23+,T=27+dday=7/06, 8/09 (pics at a work function), 11/09 VAR, 6/12 Sep'd, 10/14 Divorced."If you are going through hell, keep going."
Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 9:48 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2025
D Something else
He is back at his old ways, fishing in shallow water. Not so over the top that it gets HR attention, but just enough to see if she will bite.
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 33 years
lessthinking (original poster member #83887) posted at 11:44 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2025
I went back through it to see if there was anything more and he brought it up out of the middle of work talk..."okay my camera is on, like my granny glasses?" She just did a grin emoji and said "Yeah you look smart" he said, "I wish I was smart" and then she went back to work talk. It really is fishing for compliments.
Superesse ( member #60731) posted at 1:02 AM on Friday, April 4th, 2025
No poll opinion, just confirmation that you are right to pull back from this, it ain't changin'
