Mtngirl ( new member #45541) posted at 5:59 PM on Sunday, November 9th, 2014
I've read the 180 and it doesn't really resonate with me although the need to protect and strengthen myself does. This post did resonate with me. Thank you.
WhenToLetGo ( new member #45559) posted at 10:19 PM on Sunday, November 9th, 2014
8 days out and I am absolutely terrified that I will stay trapped in #10...but I know it's fresh and I'm working on it. Thanks for the wisdom.
[This message edited by WhenToLetGo at 12:32 AM, November 10th (Monday)]
Me-BW (35)
Him-WH (39)
Married almost 15 years 2 DD's 4&8
DDay1 - 2004 ONS
DDay2 - Oct 2010 LTA OW#1
DDay3 - 11/1/14 (his birthday) - LTA OW#2
TT 11/14/14 admitted to 7 PA and 1 EA total
TT #2 1/1/15 he shared all the sad and heartbreaking
UnwiseOne ( member #44760) posted at 2:41 PM on Wednesday, November 12th, 2014
Me: BW (47)
Husband: WH (48)
Married: 27 years in June 2020
“Children”: 23 25, 26
DD: 8-29-14 OW#5: xBFF
DD2: WH confessed 10-29-14 OW #4(LTA 2+ years), #3(LTA 18+ years), #2, and #1
Working on R
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:25 PM on Saturday, November 22nd, 2014
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 5:34 PM on Sunday, November 30th, 2014
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
Silverlining1992 ( member #45603) posted at 7:21 PM on Sunday, November 30th, 2014
*Just Breathe*
BW 40s
WH 40s
DS 8
Together 20+ yrs
Married 10+ yrs
DDay 11/11/14 friendship that became PA
{I had gut instincts about a female friend for years. He finally confessed after I found proof} TT he slept w women while we dated
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 12:01 AM on Thursday, December 4th, 2014
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
puregrace ( new member #45809) posted at 6:12 AM on Thursday, December 4th, 2014
Thank you for this post, it makes a lot of sense.
Me- 35 BS
Him- 35 WH
Married 16 years
Together 17 years
1 Child- 13 yrs old
1st D-Day 9/2013
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One of the happiest moments in life is when you find the courage to let go of the things you cannot change
Trivial ( member #45546) posted at 3:50 PM on Thursday, December 4th, 2014
Thank you for this thoughtful post. I will keep this bookmarked so I can read it again.
BW: 48 (me)
WH: 50
Married 19 years 2 kids
DD: August 9 2014
5 month EA with COW, unrequited.
Anon chat room
fishing on FB and in live action, admits to being 'on the lookout' for an affair.
WH says no PA
12/2/14: tested + for HPV
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 4:32 PM on Saturday, December 6th, 2014
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Ready2beFree ( member #45913) posted at 10:17 PM on Thursday, December 11th, 2014
Thank you for this post, this is very helpful!
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 11:25 PM on Friday, December 19th, 2014
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:20 AM on Thursday, December 25th, 2014
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:57 PM on Saturday, January 3rd, 2015
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 2:50 AM on Thursday, January 29th, 2015
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
brokenyrs ( member #46554) posted at 3:51 PM on Friday, January 30th, 2015
Thanks for the post. It holds a lot of truths that sometimes people know but don't want to see and that includes me.
Me:BW
Him: WH
Too many Ddays to count and even more women
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 1:23 AM on Monday, February 2nd, 2015
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
gottagetpastthis ( member #46645) posted at 8:25 PM on Tuesday, February 3rd, 2015
Thanks for this. I'm new to the site and 8 months in. My partner has been frustrated because I am taking "so long" to get over this, but I feel more supported and justified now by this post and this website. We are trying to work it out, but it's pretty "high risk", I guess. This article gives me some concrete things to look at and work on. Thank you for posting.
"What fresh Hell is this?" - Dorothy Parker
D-day: 6.1.14/ TT
Me: Betrayed
Him: WBF (Bipolar, NPD)
2 kitties
Living together in limbo
devotedman ( member #45441) posted at 9:47 PM on Tuesday, February 10th, 2015
bump to keep with 20/20 hindsight post
Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 1:33 AM on Sunday, February 22nd, 2015
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
