sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 2:55 PM on Wednesday, June 15th, 2016
Only 8 days - this needs a bump....
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:22 PM on Wednesday, June 22nd, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 8:51 AM on Monday, July 4th, 2016
For those who are just joining us.
I'm sorry you are here but am glad you found this safe and caring place.
Hang in there.
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 8:12 PM on Wednesday, July 6th, 2016
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 34 years/Together 35 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:03 PM on Wednesday, July 13th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 10:06 PM on Monday, July 18th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:29 PM on Thursday, August 4th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:11 PM on Thursday, August 18th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:59 AM on Monday, August 22nd, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:47 PM on Saturday, August 27th, 2016
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:34 PM on Thursday, September 8th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
hard_yards ( member #23549) posted at 12:35 PM on Sunday, September 11th, 2016
I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 2:32 PM on Sunday, September 25th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:49 PM on Wednesday, October 5th, 2016
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:02 AM on Tuesday, October 18th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:22 AM on Tuesday, October 25th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 9:37 AM on Sunday, November 6th, 2016
Bumping 
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 11:44 AM on Tuesday, November 15th, 2016
Busy time in JFO. 
Bumping again.
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 2:52 AM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:44 AM on Tuesday, December 13th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
