isadora ( member #29130) posted at 7:09 PM on Monday, December 20th, 2010
Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
Holly-Isis ( member #13447) posted at 6:50 PM on Saturday, December 25th, 2010
bump- our little gift to newbies this Christmas day. You're not alone. You are worth more. You do have a say.
"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*
SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 12:17 PM on Wednesday, December 29th, 2010
Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.
4myheart ( member #21015) posted at 8:37 PM on Thursday, December 30th, 2010
"Have you ever been so lost.... Known the way and still so lost." Katy Perry
FeelUnloved ( member #29404) posted at 3:29 AM on Sunday, January 2nd, 2011
4myheart ( member #21015) posted at 10:57 PM on Wednesday, January 5th, 2011
"Have you ever been so lost.... Known the way and still so lost." Katy Perry
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 1:23 PM on Thursday, January 6th, 2011
Bumpity bumpbumpbump Humpty bump
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
lostsuol ( member #13706) posted at 3:01 AM on Saturday, January 8th, 2011
knockedsideways ( member #29859) posted at 11:53 PM on Saturday, January 8th, 2011
Me: BW (46)
Him : (F)WH (46)
D-Day 8th June 2010
23years of M (25 together)
2 teenagers
knockedsideways ( member #29859) posted at 11:59 PM on Saturday, January 8th, 2011
Me: BW (46)
Him : (F)WH (46)
D-Day 8th June 2010
23years of M (25 together)
2 teenagers
justsoshocked ( member #24980) posted at 2:28 PM on Sunday, January 9th, 2011
Me, 42 BW
Him, 39, FWH
D-day: 4th of July 2009.
Three kids, 2,5,and 7
Still in R...so far, so good.
Living my life...loving my kids....even enjoying my M again...:)
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 4:24 AM on Monday, January 10th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
Mrs.Confused ( member #30485) posted at 3:22 AM on Tuesday, January 11th, 2011
[This message edited by kdny at 5:27 PM, January 13th (Thursday)]
It has been said, 'time heals all wounds.' I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone. ~ Rose Kennedy ~
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 9:31 AM on Wednesday, January 12th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
painfulordeal ( new member #30795) posted at 9:35 PM on Wednesday, January 12th, 2011
Thank you so much for this post. I am new here and have clung to every word I have read and have suggested this site to many of my friends.
This has helped my with the pain more than I can ever express.
So here it is BUMP!
nooneeverthought ( member #20157) posted at 5:03 PM on Wednesday, January 19th, 2011
it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:49 AM on Friday, January 21st, 2011
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 2:20 PM on Friday, January 21st, 2011
Bump for Iris0127 and other newbees.
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
southsidecali ( member #22752) posted at 6:04 PM on Friday, January 21st, 2011
BUMPING TO ADD TO MY LIST
hurttothebone ( member #30767) posted at 4:17 AM on Saturday, January 22nd, 2011
