annb ( member #22386) posted at 12:48 PM on Sunday, April 10th, 2011
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 4:11 PM on Saturday, April 16th, 2011
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 2:12 AM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
isadora ( member #29130) posted at 6:48 PM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011
Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 1:49 AM on Sunday, April 24th, 2011
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
socold ( member #17400) posted at 11:11 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2011
(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 2:28 AM on Saturday, April 30th, 2011
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 5:46 PM on Saturday, May 7th, 2011
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 4:25 AM on Sunday, May 8th, 2011
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:08 AM on Tuesday, May 10th, 2011
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 2:38 AM on Sunday, May 15th, 2011
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
nooneeverthought ( member #20157) posted at 11:11 PM on Wednesday, May 25th, 2011
it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 7:18 AM on Saturday, May 28th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 6:49 AM on Monday, June 6th, 2011
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
*****
God's hand was an avocado branch
sherran ( new member #32233) posted at 9:23 AM on Tuesday, June 7th, 2011
Karma will kick him in the arse
BS 34
WH 35
together: 13 yrs
M 2 1/2 yrs
DDay 19/5/11
A & OW - not sure how long?? no answers given
ladies_first ( member #24643) posted at 4:18 AM on Sunday, June 12th, 2011
"We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us." ~J. Campbell
"In the final analysis, it is your own attitude that will make or break you, not what has happened to you." ~D. Galloway
punky ( member #12233) posted at 5:02 PM on Sunday, June 12th, 2011
bumping for cobraadvice and others.
13 years later...finally healed. Definitely survived and thrived and you can, too.
momma3times ( member #30092) posted at 3:11 AM on Monday, June 13th, 2011
bump for all the newbies!!! 
Me: BS (37 yrs.)
Him: FWS (39 yrs.) EA via emails and phone calls that lasted 2-3 months.
Married 13 yrs, together for 19 yrs.
2 DDs (ages 9 and 5), 1 DS (3)
DDay 1/13/2010 (while I was 9 months pregnant!). Confronted him on 3/21/11
Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 2:40 PM on Wednesday, June 15th, 2011
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 4:05 AM on Thursday, June 16th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
