lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 2:36 PM on Saturday, November 5th, 2011
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
1109mama ( new member #33790) posted at 4:08 PM on Saturday, November 5th, 2011
Thanks for posting this. It has a lot of helpful info 
BS (me)- 28
SA FWH (him)- 29
D-day #1 (part of the story) 7/5/11
D-day #2(the WHOLE story) 7/11/11
Married 4 1/2 yrs, together 5 yrs.
Working on R..
~What doesn't kill you makes you stronger!~
notsosureanymore ( member #18051) posted at 7:10 PM on Saturday, November 5th, 2011
so I can come back later when time allows.
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 3:45 PM on Friday, November 11th, 2011
nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 9:46 PM on Thursday, November 17th, 2011
Bumping again. This post is getting me through every day.
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 3:00 AM on Friday, November 25th, 2011
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
unarmbears ( member #7480) posted at 3:59 PM on Saturday, November 26th, 2011
FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie
socold ( member #17400) posted at 11:16 PM on Tuesday, November 29th, 2011
(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010
Lost and Betraye ( member #33988) posted at 4:44 PM on Wednesday, November 30th, 2011
Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing
"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 7:03 AM on Tuesday, December 6th, 2011
Lost and Betraye ( member #33988) posted at 6:51 PM on Tuesday, December 6th, 2011
Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing
"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft
Lost and Betraye ( member #33988) posted at 6:20 PM on Thursday, December 8th, 2011
Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing
"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft
emptyheart ( member #18873) posted at 4:27 PM on Sunday, December 11th, 2011
Me - BW, Him - WH
2 great kids that are my reason for living.
1st D-Day - March 28, 2008
False R for a year
2nd D-Day - April 11, 2009
sudra ( member #30143) posted at 4:05 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2011
Me (BW) (5\64), Him(SAWH) (68)Married 31 years, 1 son (28), 1 stepdaughter (36) DDay #1 January 2004DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)Working on R
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 6:15 AM on Friday, December 16th, 2011
Lost and Betraye ( member #33988) posted at 4:40 AM on Tuesday, December 20th, 2011
Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing
"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 7:04 AM on Friday, December 23rd, 2011
unarmbears ( member #7480) posted at 1:05 AM on Sunday, January 1st, 2012
bump
Happy New Year!
FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 5:12 AM on Wednesday, January 4th, 2012
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 3:22 AM on Friday, January 6th, 2012
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
