homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 6:04 PM on Friday, July 6th, 2012
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55
SuspiciousWife ( member #18108) posted at 5:54 PM on Tuesday, July 10th, 2012
Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session
LostMySoulMate1 ( member #31833) posted at 11:26 PM on Tuesday, July 10th, 2012
Thankyou for the Great Posts so very helpful. 
ME:BW42 HIM:WS40 MARRIED19years 2Teens DdayFeb2009.
aesir ( member #17210) posted at 11:57 PM on Tuesday, July 24th, 2012
Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.
Do not back up. Severe tire damage.
pendant ( member #32890) posted at 6:24 AM on Thursday, July 26th, 2012
"Once forgiving begins, dreams can be rebuilt. When forgiving is complete, meaning has been extracted from the worst of experiences and used to create a new set of moral rules and a new interpretation of life's events."
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 4:32 PM on Monday, July 30th, 2012
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 9:14 PM on Tuesday, July 31st, 2012
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 12:51 AM on Saturday, August 4th, 2012
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
katherine41 ( member #5792) posted at 5:02 AM on Tuesday, August 7th, 2012
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 4:28 PM on Saturday, August 11th, 2012
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 12:41 AM on Thursday, August 16th, 2012
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
aesir ( member #17210) posted at 5:46 PM on Saturday, August 18th, 2012
Sadly, there is always a fresh need for these.
Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.
Do not back up. Severe tire damage.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:34 AM on Tuesday, August 28th, 2012
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
scangel3 ( member #36164) posted at 4:43 AM on Tuesday, August 28th, 2012
wish i had read this 2 year ago!!!
BS-me 31, WH-31, M'd-10 years
DD 10, DS 7, DS 6.5
Dday 03/01/10 (our DD's bday)
A ended 08/31/10-09/02-10 (with multiple ddays in between).TT on 08/2012, 09/04/12, 11/16/2012, 01/2013, 6/25/2013 Says he wants R, but not proving it
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 3:55 AM on Saturday, September 1st, 2012
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 4:40 AM on Sunday, September 2nd, 2012
WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 8:57 AM on Saturday, September 8th, 2012
Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 4:10 PM on Sunday, September 9th, 2012
WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:55 PM on Tuesday, September 11th, 2012
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 3:37 PM on Friday, September 14th, 2012
Bump
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
