kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:03 AM on Friday, January 4th, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
mountainmomma ( member #34388) posted at 6:27 PM on Sunday, January 6th, 2013
Me 37
WS 42 (Mitty)
4 kiddys 9,7,4 &20 mths no5 due August 14
seeing hookers, NSA sites, escorts, anyone willing from 07/08 (i didn't know)left to do full time with no restraints 2010 Returned home march 2011 in R DDay 2.4.2010 OW 30+ age 18-60
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 3:02 AM on Saturday, January 12th, 2013
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
thisissogross ( member #30294) posted at 5:27 AM on Friday, January 18th, 2013
i edit frequently because i have to
Rella ( member #21136) posted at 5:46 PM on Saturday, January 19th, 2013
Eleven years later, I never could have imagined how much happier my life has turned out!
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 5:45 AM on Monday, January 21st, 2013
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 7:07 PM on Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 5:09 AM on Saturday, February 9th, 2013
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
needrespect ( member #37951) posted at 12:30 AM on Tuesday, February 12th, 2013
BS-me 45
WH-40
married 11 yrs, together 15
DS13 DS9
Dday May 2012 EA
False R... Dday#2 11/30/2012 PA same MOW
The opposite of love is not hate ... It is indifference.
Status:%$$&^&^$#@@
seems I'm on the 15 year plan
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 9:43 PM on Wednesday, February 13th, 2013
newbees!
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
exhausted lady ( member #30217) posted at 11:04 PM on Saturday, February 23rd, 2013
Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...
God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 3:24 PM on Friday, March 1st, 2013
Weekend Bumps for Newbies
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 1:27 AM on Sunday, March 10th, 2013
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
Rella ( member #21136) posted at 10:53 PM on Sunday, March 10th, 2013
Eleven years later, I never could have imagined how much happier my life has turned out!
Lowlow ( member #38653) posted at 6:59 AM on Monday, March 11th, 2013
Best post, ever! I will refer to it often as I recuperate
Me (BS) 41 Him (FWS) 42 at time of confession
Reconciling
thisissogross ( member #30294) posted at 8:58 AM on Friday, March 15th, 2013
i edit frequently because i have to
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:53 AM on Thursday, March 21st, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 7:47 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Jospehine85 ( member #35971) posted at 10:08 PM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013
Me - BS
WH - old
Kids
Dday May 2012
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 6:39 PM on Thursday, April 4th, 2013
Another regular bump for this great article/thread/eye opener!
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
