SatyaMom (original poster member #83919) posted at 1:54 PM on Wednesday, December 17th, 2025
I finally insisted on a polygraph and after our 3rd DDay ….he passed. So I now know the truth. Does it change anything- not really except I feel calmer. I fought hard, was very empathetic and forgiving looking for answers but this last DDay broke me. When I look at him he is a shell of the man I loved for 26 yrs. We are separated . You’d think he’d fight for us, maybe he thinks that’s what he’s doing but all I see is a weak broken man :( I realize how much I held the family together and now am letting it crumble. Polygraph- I resisted for a long time thinking it would just be too much shame for him, turns out it probably was ….but I have what I needed