steadfast1973 ( member #24719) posted at 1:26 PM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013
December 5th. In exactly a week.
Me- 42- BS Him- 38- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 multi EAs, likely PA, trickle truth, d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute Separated 1/2017
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah"
33years ( member #41053) posted at 9:20 PM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013
Me (BS) 59
Him (WH) 58
DD July 10, 2013
My Motto: "I'm fairly certain that nothing is certain anymore"
momof1girl ( member #41074) posted at 6:16 AM on Saturday, November 30th, 2013
D-Day: Oct. 1, 2013
Together 15 years, married 7, 1 child, age 7.
WH: 37 y.o., EA/PA since March
OW: 26, 1 child (not WH's)
Me: 34, BS
Separated Nov. 16, 2013
Does a wedding anniversary still count if you are separated?
iwillNOT ( member #40605) posted at 6:28 AM on Saturday, November 30th, 2013
Me: BS, 46
Him: WH, 47
Together 24 years
4 amazing kids
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Choosing myself daily and R almost every
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 1:16 AM on Sunday, December 1st, 2013
Updated again today 11/30/13. 
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
Getting to Happy ( member #35200) posted at 6:09 AM on Monday, December 2nd, 2013
Hi everybody!
August 1. 56 next year!!
My, how time flies when your having fun!!!
WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown
betrayed13yrs ( member #40343) posted at 4:54 PM on Monday, December 2nd, 2013
Mine is November 26th. I just turned 30
brokensoul75 ( new member #41473) posted at 5:12 AM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013
You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you. ~Walt Disney
We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey. ~Kenji Miyazawa
Livia1776 ( new member #41546) posted at 10:32 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013
December 22, in a little over two weeks!
GotPlayed ( member #41294) posted at 1:23 AM on Saturday, December 14th, 2013
Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
XBH and healing. D final March 2016
Her: Doesn't matter anymore.
DS13 Severe SN. DD11 Awesome
spond ( member #41686) posted at 6:32 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013
BH(me) | fWW
2 Kids - Married 2002
D-Day TT & EA | D-Day #2 PA
Reconciling
ItHappened2Me2 ( member #32503) posted at 1:38 AM on Friday, December 27th, 2013
BS - me (57 now); WS - him (57 now)
DD 21o, DS 17 yo
Married 25 years (together 27+/-)
DDay #1 - March 18, 2011
DD #2 (after 3 + month TT and false R -- the affair had gone underground) - June 28,2011
DD3: June 19, 2013
DIVORCED!!!! and doing well
Mack9512 ( member #38619) posted at 1:41 AM on Friday, December 27th, 2013
September 24th
"If you're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello." - Paulo Coehlo
LostSamurai ( member #41347) posted at 2:07 PM on Friday, December 27th, 2013
I am the wandering samurai, and I found my freedom...
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 4:34 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2014
UPdated!!
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
hangingonin ( member #29530) posted at 6:17 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2014
Ascendant ( member #38303) posted at 11:23 PM on Thursday, January 2nd, 2014
goodbye_virginia ( member #16321) posted at 5:20 AM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
Me- BW 38
Him - WH 46 alcoholic
We are attempting R but I still doubt it all sometimes
Divorced as of 09/2018
sunsetslost ( member #39885) posted at 1:22 PM on Saturday, January 4th, 2014
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
Wayflost ( member #41583) posted at 4:39 AM on Tuesday, January 7th, 2014
January 6th, spent it here.
"Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly."
