 
				    				Nothanks ( member #43225)		posted at 12:51 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014	
		 			 
				    				devasted30 ( member #39439)		posted at 8:04 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2014	
			 
	My birthday is December 8th 
 
			 			And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!		
	 	 			 
				    				Sparkle0504 ( member #40379)		posted at 6:58 PM on Tuesday, April 29th, 2014	
				Me 52 (BS)  Him 60 (EXSAWH) 
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011
I'm done. Separated. 
Time is always right, to do right. (Dr Martin Luther King)		
	 	 			 
				    				20WrongsVs1 ( member #39000)		posted at 5:25 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014	
			 
	Plenty of time to get me in, so take your time.  
 
 
 
	Feb. 23. 
 
			 			fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
Former motto: "Fake it till ya make it." Now: "You can't win if you don't play."		
	 	 			 
				    				 BrokenRoad (original poster  member #15334)		posted at 12:38 PM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014	
				{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*		
	 	 			 
				    				knightsbff ( member #36853)		posted at 4:33 AM on Friday, May 2nd, 2014	
			 
	Dec 1 
 
 
	 
 
 
			 			fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs. 
I edit often to fix stuff  ☺️
Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day.  that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try. 		
	 	 			 
				    				Doubts ( member #40209)		posted at 3:30 PM on Saturday, May 10th, 2014	
		 			 
				    				needadvise ( member #43218)		posted at 5:38 AM on Monday, May 19th, 2014	
				BS: 48 Me
WH: 46 him
DD 17 Ours
DS 23 Mine
DDAY 4/17/2013 my father's anniversary death date. 
2013 to present: TT big time 
1 PA/EA 
9 more women PAs all of our 17 years of marriage.  Never had a clue until TT in the last year.  Showe		
	 	 			 
				    				needadvise ( member #43218)		posted at 5:39 AM on Monday, May 19th, 2014	
			 
	
[This message edited by needadvise at 11:39 PM, May 18th (Sunday)] 
 
			 			BS: 48 Me
WH: 46 him
DD 17 Ours
DS 23 Mine
DDAY 4/17/2013 my father's anniversary death date. 
2013 to present: TT big time 
1 PA/EA 
9 more women PAs all of our 17 years of marriage.  Never had a clue until TT in the last year.  Showe		
	 	 			 
				    				twisted ( member #8873)		posted at 9:29 PM on Friday, May 23rd, 2014	
				"Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?		
	 	 			 
				    				Guinness23 ( member #42852)		posted at 1:38 AM on Monday, May 26th, 2014	
				Me 48
Divorced 2010 
1."'FOREVER' in love" lasts only 14 years. 
2. Alcohol is NO solution just a bigger problem
My favorite drink is water. Call me Dasani23 		
	 	 			 
				    				 BrokenRoad (original poster  member #15334)		posted at 4:13 AM on Monday, June 2nd, 2014	
			 
	============= UPDATED TO HERE ============== 
 
 
	don't forget to get your July birthdays in by June 30! 
 
 
	--BR  
 
 
			 			{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*		
	 	 			 
				    				Scubadoo ( member #43079)		posted at 6:20 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014	
				BS (me) 42
WS (him) 48
OW (downgrade) 48
Married 11 yrs
DS 9
DD 8
D-day 10/27/13
8mth 		
	 	 			 
				    				Angeles85 ( member #42107)		posted at 6:16 AM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014	
			 
	August 5th, will be 29 :) 
 
			 	 			 
				    				ICTYFTITY ( new member #43734)		posted at 5:44 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014	
			 
	My birthday is June 28 :) 
 
			 			Me: BW (31)
Him: WH (34)
3 Daughters
Married 9 years
DDays: Various in 2012
Working on R...?
I Can Throw You Further Than I Trust You.
		
	 	 			 
				    				bravegirl19 ( member #43539)		posted at 12:45 AM on Wednesday, June 25th, 2014	
			 
	Celebrated my birthday yesterday, June 23…just turned 36. Thanks :) 
 
			 			Me (BS) – 37
WS – 36
Dday – 5/25/14
Together since 2003, married 6 1/2 years
EA and PA with COW for at least 3 months WHILE I WAS PREGNANT (still don’t know the truth of the length of this affair or possibly others)		
	 	 			 
				    				shygirl07 ( member #42972)		posted at 9:33 PM on Thursday, June 26th, 2014	
			 
	turning 28 on Oct 7 2014 .. yikes ! :( 
 
			 			me:27
him:30 
7 years together
no children 
OW was his ex he always convinced was his friend .. moved in her and knocked her up , got together behind my back  
Ddays : many in 2009 and 2010
final dday : Sept 2012 after being broken up 3 w		
	 	 			 
				    				painfulpast ( member #41038)		posted at 9:35 PM on Thursday, June 26th, 2014	
			 
	September 17th, and I believe DeeplyScared has a birthday present all set for me 
 
 
	 
   
   
 
 
			 			DDay - 12/2010
Fully R'd - I love my husband		
	 	 			 
				    				 BrokenRoad (original poster  member #15334)		posted at 2:39 AM on Tuesday, July 1st, 2014	
			 
	======UPDATED TO HERE======== 
 
 
	--br 
 
			 			{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*		
	 	 			 
				    				sudra ( member #30143)		posted at 4:07 PM on Wednesday, July 2nd, 2014	
			 
	Can I still jump on?  September 18! 
 
			 			Me (BW) (5\64), Him(SAWH) (68)Married 31 years, 1 son (28), 1 stepdaughter (36) DDay #1 January 2004DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)Working on R