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Newbies: Mind movies and dark thoughts - how to stop them

Topic is Sleeping.
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:39 PM on Sunday, May 24th, 2020

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30475   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8545392
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Belle618 ( new member #74871) posted at 3:08 AM on Wednesday, July 15th, 2020

Thank you so much for sharing.

posts: 7   ·   registered: Jul. 14th, 2020
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Hurtoveragain ( new member #74891) posted at 6:12 PM on Thursday, July 16th, 2020

Oh how i needed this. Thank you! I have been the director of many movies where i am not the actress. I need to refocus. 1st i must delete all the texts which are a daily reminder.

posts: 4   ·   registered: Jul. 16th, 2020
id 8562524
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 heartbroken_kk (original poster member #22722) posted at 4:11 PM on Tuesday, July 28th, 2020

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FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

posts: 2540   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: California
id 8567339
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:23 PM on Friday, December 18th, 2020

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30475   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8617794
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:47 PM on Friday, February 5th, 2021

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30475   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8630872
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 9:45 PM on Tuesday, May 11th, 2021

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30475   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8658603
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:34 PM on Friday, June 18th, 2021

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30475   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8668219
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SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 2:25 PM on Monday, September 13th, 2021

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posts: 10034   ·   registered: May. 30th, 2002
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:12 AM on Saturday, February 19th, 2022

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30475   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8717271
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Summertime22 ( member #79796) posted at 6:54 PM on Sunday, February 20th, 2022

Thank you so much. I will definitely try this! My thoughts are driving me crazy. Xx

posts: 266   ·   registered: Jan. 16th, 2022   ·   location: UK
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 2:44 PM on Tuesday, April 12th, 2022

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30475   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8729354
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:58 PM on Monday, June 20th, 2022

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30475   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8741049
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:53 PM on Saturday, October 15th, 2022

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30475   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8759736
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doublerainbow ( member #82239) posted at 1:45 AM on Thursday, October 27th, 2022

Thank you, I really needed this and will try it. Sadly I don’t even know how / where to start thinking alternate thoughts / topics.

Me: BS (38) Him: WS (45) D-Day (Jan 2022), going through D. 1 DD age 4. Just want to know there’s light at the end of this mess.

posts: 67   ·   registered: Oct. 26th, 2022   ·   location: West Coast
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:04 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2022

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30475   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8764302
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:26 PM on Wednesday, January 11th, 2023

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30475   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8772928
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:23 PM on Saturday, February 18th, 2023

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30475   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8778425
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:13 PM on Friday, June 9th, 2023

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30475   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8794686
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Squish ( member #79546) posted at 7:12 PM on Friday, June 9th, 2023

Thank you so much for taking the time to share what has worked for you. I am looking forward to being responsible for me and seeing how this will help me. Thank you again!!!

posts: 123   ·   registered: Nov. 1st, 2021
id 8794691
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