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What to do with used books re Infidelity?

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 Alex CR (original poster member #27968) posted at 1:21 PM on Thursday, April 14th, 2016

I'm an avid reader and have accumulated quite a few books about infidelity, many that I saw recommended here years ago. I always donate my books to the local town book sale, but feel a little awkward walking up to the ladies in town and handing them a large box of books focused on infidelity and healing your marriage.

I no longer want these books and really don't have the space for them....what do you all do with these books when you're done with them?

BS Me 63
WS Him 64
Married 35
Together 41
DD 11/16/09
I can dwell in the negative or seek the positive...one road is lonely...the other teeming with life.

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GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 4:33 PM on Thursday, April 14th, 2016

Some have posted here on SI that they have books available.

Interested members will ask about them then arrangements for shipping can be made.

Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

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MustNotBeTrue ( member #52266) posted at 5:25 PM on Thursday, April 14th, 2016

Charity shops here (UK) have "bins" in recycling areas where you can drop clothes and other things (DVDs, books, etc). Not sure if you have something similar?

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GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 5:43 PM on Thursday, April 14th, 2016

Charity shops here (UK) have "bins" in recycling areas where you can drop clothes and other things (DVDs, books, etc)

Oh! Our local libraries have "Friends of the Library" groups that take donated books and sell them for deep discounts ($0.50 for hardcovers and $0.25 for paperback). They have donation areas as well. Usually you'll see paper sacks full of books. If that's an option, I'd just put them in a bag and leave them in the donation area.

ETA: The proceeds from the Friends of Library sales go back into improvements for the library (community classes, updates to the children's rest/reading area, etc).

[This message edited by GabyBaby at 11:47 AM, April 14th (Thursday)]

Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.

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somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 3:05 AM on Friday, April 15th, 2016

..hey, there are plenty of people here that have collections like yours, myself included.. and many have reason to need them...a SECOND time!!

..I think I'll just hang onto them for a few more years. ..and hope I don't need to pass them on to our two sons..???

smy

trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think!Me 77 Her 73 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!

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 Alex CR (original poster member #27968) posted at 3:52 PM on Friday, April 15th, 2016

I usually donate to the local library book sale in the summer, however, it's a small town and we hand the books to the ladies at the table...not sure how anonymous that would be, but I could take them to a bigger town with a drop off spot.

I'd be happy to ship to someone if they wanted them....

((somanyyears)) you are so right....and it's so sad we ever needed them in the first place.

Thanks for your responses.....I will look in the paper for a larger donation sight.....

BS Me 63
WS Him 64
Married 35
Together 41
DD 11/16/09
I can dwell in the negative or seek the positive...one road is lonely...the other teeming with life.

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artsoup ( member #52602) posted at 12:02 PM on Tuesday, April 26th, 2016

I might want them! I love to read! I have been searching Amazon weekly for new books on this topic but there is SO much. I get overwhelmed!

I've been hesitant to take out from the library too, medium sized town but I know EVERYONE the librarians are eaither parents of kids I grew up with or my kids friends....don't need to air my dirty laundry there, lol!

I can't PM yet and don't want to put my personal info on here publicly...hmmmm.

Dday 2/28/16 False R. Then D-day's 2,3,4 in July & August 2016.
More uncovered February 2018.
Almost 4 years, still on a healing journey

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 Alex CR (original poster member #27968) posted at 8:49 PM on Friday, April 29th, 2016

I'd love to mail them to you. I forget how pm's work, but I PM'ed you....if that works, great...if not, I don't know how else to do this......Sorry......

BS Me 63
WS Him 64
Married 35
Together 41
DD 11/16/09
I can dwell in the negative or seek the positive...one road is lonely...the other teeming with life.

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brknheartcanada ( member #45195) posted at 5:33 AM on Monday, July 4th, 2016

If only I wasnt in Canada with a pending postal strike.

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