Topic is Sleeping.
twicefooled (original poster member #42976) posted at 2:19 PM on Tuesday, April 6th, 2021
And I didn't even realize it until something on Facebook triggered the date for me.
In previous years I would spend the last week or so lamenting about the unfairness of it all.
Last year I realized it was The Day on the day.
This year it passed without mention or thought.
Seven years later things don't cut as deep as they used to <3
May 29 2021 ***reclaimed myself and decided to delete my story with my ex because I'm now 7 years free from him and mentally healthier than I've been in years.
*********When you know better, you can do better*************
AnnieOakley ( member #13332) posted at 6:40 PM on Tuesday, April 6th, 2021
I completely understand Twice. My 30th would have been earlier in March. I knew it was coming up but forgot about the date until the day after. There have been previous years that I did not think about it at all, I guess a milestone put it on my mind.
There are times that I still feel sadness, but I know that is because we really had a good marriage...except for that one small detail. 🙄
Life goes on.This last year has been difficult so I think it feels more pronounced. I’m getting out of my CV19 shell one small step at a time. 😊
You sound like you are in a really good place, that’s wonderful!
Me= BSHim=xWH (did the work & became the man I always thought he was, but it was too late)M=23+,T=27+dday=7/06, 8/09 (pics at a work function), 11/09 VAR, 6/12 Sep'd, 10/14 Divorced."If you are going through hell, keep going."
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 1:13 AM on Wednesday, April 7th, 2021
Yay! Nice progress!
[This message edited by BearlyBreathing at 7:13 PM, April 6th, 2021 (Tuesday)]
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 2:11 PM on Wednesday, April 7th, 2021
Hey Twice...Yesterday was my old wedding anniversary too!
Isn't it great to be at a point were it is just like 'meh' when you realize the date!!!????
I am a little further out than you (11 years post D) - and it just gets better.
Raising my champagne glass to you (you know...if we had champagne and if I even drank 
)
Here is to better chapters!
Karmafan ( member #53810) posted at 3:28 PM on Wednesday, April 7th, 2021
Way to go Twicefooled! You have clearly crossed over to a much better and happier place. A place where infidelity no longer defines you. Here is to your new beginning and to many more happy posts 
Me 48 XWH Irrelevant D-day 23 Feb 163 amazing, resilient kids
You are not a drop in the Ocean, you are the entire Ocean in a drop
Westway ( member #71747) posted at 2:36 PM on Thursday, April 8th, 2021
Me: 52;
XWW: 50 y.o. serial cheater
Married 22 years, Together 24
2 Daughters: aged 16 and 20
DDay: 9/20/19
Divorced 12/03/20.
Topic is Sleeping.
