Topic is Sleeping.
EllieKMAS (original poster member #68900) posted at 7:26 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021
I bought a new car today! I went through that Carvana place and my new wheels will be delivered a week from tomorrow 
Is crazy that you can buy a whole ass car online now...
I ended up going with a 2018 Mazda CX-3 in that gorgeous juicy red color so I also then know exactly what color my nails are gonna be next week LOL (OPI An Affair in Red Square - so fitting for so many reasons)
I just can't believe what a difference a couple years have made in my life. 2 years ago my credit was so shite I would have needed a co-signer to do this, but not having someone around bleeding me dry financially has allowed me to pay things off and turn things around more than I ever thought possible. Ellie is a happy girl today!
"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger
"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 7:28 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021
Go Ellie!
Where are you going to drive your awesome self first?
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
DanielJK ( member #75654) posted at 7:38 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021
NICE!
BH 51
STBXWW 53
2 daughters, 14 and 16
Filed for divorce 12/23/2020
After a year of hell I finally moved out (5/26/2021).
Divorce still pending.
EllieKMAS (original poster member #68900) posted at 7:40 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021
Probably over to my mom's and then my sister's house... they are both so excited too LOL
"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger
"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 8:20 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 8:40 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
DevastatedDee ( member #59873) posted at 9:10 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021
Sweet, Ellie!! I love that Mazda shade of red!
DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 9:53 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021
Nice! You are going to look amazing in it!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
EllieKMAS (original poster member #68900) posted at 10:19 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021
I love that Mazda shade of red!
Meeeee toooooo. Every time I see one driving around, it makes me think of that OPI nail polish (it's my favorite red). Oooooh, and I just got a new red lipstick too. Yassssssss!
Guys I know I'm dorktastic 
"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger
"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 10:23 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021
Yesssss Ellie
WTG
Love the nail color choice.
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
freetogonow ( member #57821) posted at 11:14 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021
So proud of you!!!!
Yes it’s amazing how much money I have when someone’s not pillaging my finances. Funny how that goes
Karmafan ( member #53810) posted at 11:32 PM on Friday, April 30th, 2021
Guys I know I'm dorktastic
Ellie
Me 48 XWH Irrelevant D-day 23 Feb 163 amazing, resilient kids
You are not a drop in the Ocean, you are the entire Ocean in a drop
AngelBetrayed ( member #28579) posted at 12:21 AM on Saturday, May 1st, 2021
Fabulous!! Embrace your inner dorkness
BW: Me 45 ( now 53 )
BH: Him 38. ( no longer relevant )
together 10 years, married 8 on DD
Reconciled for 6 years, Divorced
1 DD: 12
Confessed: February 26, 2010
PA 1.5 years with coworker MOW
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 6:25 AM on Saturday, May 1st, 2021
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
phmh ( member #34146) posted at 4:05 PM on Saturday, May 1st, 2021
Congratulations! This is why i stay on SI - to read success stories of people really thriving. Great job!!!
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
Anna123 ( member #70908) posted at 7:47 PM on Saturday, May 1st, 2021
Congratulations! SO exciting!
What an awesome feeling and ditto on how money doesn't magically disappear once cheater free. (Any alcohol in the home also lasts far longer---)
siracha ( member #75132) posted at 11:35 PM on Saturday, May 1st, 2021
Ellie is on fire !! A Firey red chariot to be exact !
J707 ( member #63778) posted at 12:31 AM on Sunday, May 2nd, 2021
So awesome and congratulations! All those little steps you've done have brought you to this moment! Be proud!
It is amazing how much these people drain the finances isn't it? Enjoy your new ride! I've been eye balling Toyota Rav4's recently, just haven't pulled the trigger yet.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 2:14 AM on Sunday, May 2nd, 2021
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
gmc94 ( member #62810) posted at 9:40 AM on Sunday, May 2nd, 2021
You drive your fine dorktastic arse with the red and the red and the red wherever you wanna go, girl!
Congratulations, I am so happy for you!
M >25yrs/grown kids
DD1 1994 ONS prostitute
DD2 2018 exGF1 10+yrEA & 10yrPA... + exGF2 EA forever & "made out" 2017
9/18 WH hung himself- died but revived
It's rude to say "I love you" with a mouthful of lies
Topic is Sleeping.
