Topic is Sleeping.
crazyblindsided (original poster member #35215) posted at 5:38 PM on Thursday, November 4th, 2021
I never thought I would be here saying this, but I am absolutely LOVING dating. Each person has offered me a glimpse of how different and amazing people are. It also makes me realize just how scum my xWS is. My ex didn't treat me with half of some of the attention I have been getting. There is one person on my radar that I am hoping will be a good match, but I'm having fun. Life is good 
fBS/fWS(me):51 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:53 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(21) DS(18)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Divorced 8/8/24
DailyGratitude ( member #79494) posted at 8:24 PM on Thursday, November 4th, 2021
@crazyblindsided
I am so happy for you!!!
I was also thinking about dating just so I know there are good people out there! It’s been 28 years since i went on a date so this idea is incredibly daunting. Are you using online dating services? How are you meeting these people? I wouldn’t even know where to begin. But I would love to meet some folks for a cup of coffee, etc.
Me: BW mid 50’sHim: WH late 50’sMarrried 25 yearsDday: EA 2002 PA 9/2021Divorce 10/2021 (per wh’s request) WH left to be with AP
crazyblindsided (original poster member #35215) posted at 8:30 PM on Thursday, November 4th, 2021
DailyGratitudeI am using an online dating app. So far have went on a handful of dates. It was nervewracking at first because like you it has been 25 years since I dated and online dating wasn't even a thing then 
I have been pleasantly surprised by my experiences so far. Just go into with an open mind and have fun!
fBS/fWS(me):51 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:53 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(21) DS(18)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Divorced 8/8/24
skeetermooch ( member #72169) posted at 2:57 AM on Friday, November 5th, 2021
CBS, that's lovely news!
Congratulations!!
Me: BS 56 on DDay 1 - 7/2019 DIVORCED - 1/2021
countrydirt ( member #55758) posted at 10:49 PM on Saturday, November 6th, 2021
Yay! Dating is fun. Relationships...jury is still out in my part of the world.
3 adult sonsMarried 32 years. DDay1 - June 2016, DDay 2 - April 2017, Final DDay - May 2020. Divorced - January 2021
Life is Good!
Anna123 ( member #70908) posted at 2:38 AM on Monday, November 8th, 2021
Glad you are having fun!
Heads up --- I was doing the same and then decided to take a break and cancelled my Match subscription. I just found out on Friday that if you cancel without removing your photos first, they have the right to keep them circulating! Without your subscription you have no access to remove them after.
The only way for me to remove them is to sign back up so maybe I will be joining the dating crowd again since I would be paying for three months anyhow--- It sucks though because now I am two and three years older than my pictures and need to put up newer 'older' pics of myself and list my 'new' older age -- ughh. The pickings just get slimmer for us ladies.
Enjoy!
Topic is Sleeping.
