Topic is Sleeping.
Trdd ( member #65989) posted at 2:21 PM on Thursday, October 20th, 2022
I would tell her
"I am more concerned that you say you invited him over to pick up the check with the express intent of testing yourself and resisting him but then you still failed. You are saying you knew the first kiss was wrong and decided not to do it again but even then you could not resist him. That's in some ways much more concerning than if you just wanted to see him again but maybe didn't actually plan to have sex. How can I be sure you will ever be able to resist temptation again if that is the actual truth?"
"Or is that not the truth and you have been rationalizing your desire to see him again that second time? Either way, what are you doing to make yourself safe for the marriage going forward?"
Rocko ( member #80436) posted at 4:48 PM on Saturday, October 22nd, 2022
PFB,
Pulling for You to find your peace
Have you read Waitedwaytoolong's threads?
I believe that if your project had lasted a bit longer you would find yourself in the same situation! The testing herself is the dead giveaway to me, she failed that test and would've likely have moved on to the next exam given time and exposure.
If i remember right she is employed, I would have her pay to replace the A/C system. Every time the unit kicks on or the thermostat needs adjusted, I would picture her blowing the POS.
Again hoping you find peace.
Topic is Sleeping.
