Topic is Sleeping.
wjbrennan78 (original poster member #84763) posted at 12:16 AM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2024
Do you love it when your WS texts or ask how your day is? We aren't even a month out from DDay. What the hell type of answer is she thinking I'm gonna give. Regularly I say "I'm Fine". That has been her hallmark passive, aggressive response all these years. Followed by the cold shoulder for the rest of the day.
hardyfool ( member #83133) posted at 2:03 AM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2024
Oh, I once might have responded to such a text with "not bad, where is your boyfriend today?".
Webbit ( member #84517) posted at 2:25 AM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2024
Oh mate, it is so infuriating 🤬
My WS will text me this question after a massive fight about the affair where I will not have slept, eaten etc etc.
I usually reply ‘fucking fantastic, how do you think it’s fucking going’.
Groot1988 ( member #84337) posted at 2:41 AM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2024
7 months out and same.
H told our MC he gets upset because we can’t just talk about our day.
Sorry I’m not your AP , unfortunately he flipped my world upside down and I didn’t get strictly sex and compliments , I got shit.
So when he asks me "how are you today?" It’s always
"what the hell do you think?
He gets the hint.
Married 5 years (together 11) Four children Me Bs 36Him WH 35- 4 month PA Dday Oct 6- lots of TT final disclosure Jan 16.
"If we walk through hell we might as well hold hands, we should make this a home"- citizen soldier
wjbrennan78 (original poster member #84763) posted at 3:59 AM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2024
I love how they can't own their own bullshit and expect us to massage and feed their ego. Pathetic.
1994 ( member #82615) posted at 4:23 AM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2024
How much do you know about the affair itself and how far along it had developed?
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wjbrennan78 (original poster member #84763) posted at 4:27 AM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2024
She withholds information the when's, the where, the how. I know it was an EA that turned PA for about 5 months. She believes it went more than "just friends" in late January. I'm finding shit from early December and possibly late November.
Topic is Sleeping.
