She has a new found interest in how I'm doing but frankly, when she calls and askes "how are you this morning, still emotional?"
Prior to my world collapsing, we were in the process of changing investment advisors opting for two different firms for a 1 year test (or so I thought). In that light, some of the work is already done but it gives me pause as to how long she been planning?
In an effort to extend an olive branch I suppose, she invited me to a ballroom dancing mixer near our beach condo. I had never been there prior but it was clear that she was a regular. If there was a silver lining, at least there was any apparent attention being paid by any of the men in the crowd but I did find it unsettling that just about every woman who approached us said "oh, you brought your husband tonight". I had never been to this ballroom and didn't know a single one of these women.
Wow, I see a picture in the following quotes from your comments. I think you do as well.
That ballroom dancing comment are the females (the women who made the comments) telling you something about your wife. First the women do not like her, second they are telling you she is quite the cheater. Think about the ramifications of it, then extrapolate what it means to suddenly bring you there (I can not even fully wrap my head around what her intentions were). Perhaps one of the women here could explain it to the both of us.
Protect yourself, lawyers bring them in, the time is now. Whatever you choose do not get caught unaware that she has been planning something and probably still is. I was caught surprise, I survived it, but not without its share of negativity.
Also secure the assets even ones not easily liquidated. It feels like to me she is playing for time, there must be reason for that action.
