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deena04 (original poster member #41741) posted at 11:12 PM on Saturday, November 11th, 2023
For the last two years, we have buried many family members. The total today is 5 since March 2022. It will be 6 this week. I’m just kind of mentally over it. These are a niece, a nephew, mom, aunts/uncles. I could just use maybe some prayers for a better couple of years. Mentally I’m done.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 1:05 AM on Sunday, November 12th, 2023
Prayers for peace and healing.
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 1:10 AM on Sunday, November 12th, 2023
Oh deena04. Prayers for you to have peace going forward.
Hugs
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
deena04 (original poster member #41741) posted at 2:07 AM on Sunday, November 12th, 2023
Thanks. I’m feeling pretty defeated tonight. It’s non-stop lately.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
Superesse ( member #60731) posted at 3:39 AM on Sunday, November 12th, 2023
Prayers being offered for you and for your family. This last year has been one death after another here, too, and it really takes a huge toll on our sense of self. You have been through so much, and now having to cope with more loss ((((deena)))).
annb ( member #22386) posted at 2:06 PM on Sunday, November 12th, 2023
Sending prayers and positive thoughts.
(((deena04)))
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 3:35 PM on Sunday, November 12th, 2023
Deena.. i’m so sorry about all this tragedy for you. I had a similar couple of years during the time of my husband‘s infidelity. It’s so very hard, because on top of the pain of loss, you get the feeling of impending doom. My husband and I used to fuss about who had to answer the phone, for fear of what terrible news we would hear.
Do you mind me asking what is the next bad news you are expecting to get? If I understood correctly you said "this week would make six".
[This message edited by WhatsRight at 3:37 PM, Sunday, November 12th]
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I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
deena04 (original poster member #41741) posted at 5:04 PM on Sunday, November 12th, 2023
We have another funeral so this makes 6 this week. It’s just this funeral has not happened yet but she has passed.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 8:40 PM on Sunday, November 12th, 2023
Thats a lot of grief. Prayers and a very gentle reminder to be kind to you, and if you are struggling there are counselors that can help you navigate this too.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 2:21 AM on Monday, November 13th, 2023
So sorry Deena. that is so much loss. Please be gentle and kind to yourself. There are grief groups and counselors… maybe one can help you feel less defeated.
Sending you virtual hugs ((()))
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 1:30 PM on Monday, November 13th, 2023
That is a lot! Thinking of you!
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 6:31 PM on Monday, November 13th, 2023
I'm so sorry Deena. That is a lot too deal with. Sending you hugs and strength.
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
2ManyMigraines ( member #61851) posted at 1:46 PM on Tuesday, November 14th, 2023
I'm so very sorry, Deena. I don't post often, but I wanted to comment and let you know you're not alone. I also am struggling hard with grief and loss. We've had so very many since December 2021. It's suffocating. I am seeing therapists, and it helps some. Lifting you in prayer. Sending (((hugs))).
deena04 (original poster member #41741) posted at 6:52 PM on Thursday, November 16th, 2023
Thank you all. #6 funeral in under 20 months completed.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 9:05 PM on Thursday, November 16th, 2023
(((Deena04))) so sorry Deena. take care of yourself during this tender time.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
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