homewrecked2011 (original poster member #34678) posted at 4:39 PM on Friday, May 1st, 2026
Lord, I’m 12 years past divorce finalization. Kids are now 26 and 29. XH and Ow now wifetress recently asked son (26) to help with building a deck around their camper at a campsite. He said ok. Bought materials, showed up~ it’s at a nudist colony. 😕 Didn’t tell son ahead of time. * That’s my biggest complaint*. Son built the deck, but sadly I didn’t know to warn him ahead of time to stay away from Dad, as I thought maybe Dad was more normal now.
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Letmebefrank ( member #86994) posted at 7:00 PM on Friday, May 1st, 2026
Does he really need help? Sounds like he has a pretty funny story to tell his buds…
If he’s actually troubled, I’m not sure there’s much role for you. Your son is 26 years old, he’s going to decide for himself what to do with his relationships. My father left my mom for another woman that he’s still with. I almost never talk to her about him, and if I did I doubt I’d be super open about it, especially to criticize him. I feel like that’s not what I should do.
If he’s really really bothered, you should encourage him to see a therapist.
[This message edited by Letmebefrank at 7:20 PM, Friday, May 1st]
BackfromtheStorm ( member #86900) posted at 10:44 PM on Friday, May 1st, 2026
Don’t worry about your son at 26 he’s having a good laugh and a story to tell.
One thing only: ow asked your son to come to a nudist camp to help with building a deck?
Now knowing what kind of people the OM / OW are there is the only spot I would keep an eye on.
She will betray your ex husband as they usually do. But be it with another garbage guy.
Not to exclude she might have aims all considered.
You never know
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