Topic is Sleeping.
Lucky ( member #6864) posted at 5:22 AM on Wednesday, August 2nd, 2006
Porc, I actually JUST read this 
I would be GLAD to help out anyway I can.
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Revkwd ( member #4933) posted at 9:19 AM on Wednesday, August 2nd, 2006
Porc, I am interested also. 3 years down the road and I am online because I can't sleep!! I want a chapter about the difficulty of healing without knowing the timing, etc. I found out almost 25 years after the fact; and because my husband can't remember; I don't know when, exactly. I am unable to put my life back together as it actually was. My daugter told. She was informed at 13 by one of the OP. This is a whole other ball of wax. Also, I believe secrecy is what promotes infidelity and I am all for bring light and knowledge to the subject. Even smart people assume the marriage sex is bad, right off. In all honestly, that is probably what I believed.
kwd
Revkwd ( member #4933) posted at 9:20 AM on Wednesday, August 2nd, 2006
Porc, I am interested also. 3 years down the road and I am online because I can't sleep!! I want a chapter about the difficulty of healing without knowing the timing, etc. I found out almost 25 years after the fact; and because my husband can't remember; I don't know when, exactly. I am unable to put my life back together as it actually was. My daugter told. She was informed at 13 by one of the OP. This is a whole other ball of wax. Also, I believe secrecy is what promotes infidelity and I am all for bring light and knowledge to the subject. Even smart people assume the marriage sex is bad, right off. In all honestly, that is probably what I believed.
kwd
dmanette ( member #1653) posted at 11:38 PM on Thursday, October 19th, 2006
Okay Porcupine, I've resurfaced. Sorry it took me so long but I've got SOOO much going on these days. Now, where are we with this book project and when will it be ready to pitch to publishers?
Let me know,
Danine
http://www.ultimatebetrayal.com
That which does not kill us makes us stronger!
seashells ( member #8141) posted at 11:57 AM on Friday, October 20th, 2006
Hi Danine !!!
Please notice my tag line ...
Geez, I've been meaning to "write you" for a while, now ...
I hope, that you are doing amazingly well, these days ? ? ?
shells
First - D day - 9-15-05 ...
Second - D day - End of - October of 2005 ...
Not a good time of the year for me :(
www.ultimatebetrayal.com
stupidme ( member #7991) posted at 11:53 AM on Saturday, October 21st, 2006
Porc, I just saw this and realised that everything I have written for you is still sitting in Word.
I will get it out for you tommorrow and finish it off for you.
Just some minor amendments to do and it is then all yours.
Sorry, mate, I forgot all about it.
My sincere apologies.
SM
Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall ~~Confucius~~
I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness because it shows me the stars.~Og Mandino~
Sad & Alone ( member #10183) posted at 5:12 AM on Monday, December 25th, 2006
Hi all, it has been several months and I haven't heard anything at all about this. I was just wondering if anyone could provide an update on the status of this project and/or tell what was still needed to do.
I should hate for something this important to be forgotten...!
We must learn to regard people less in the light of what they do or omit to do, and more in the light of what they suffer. - Dietrich Bonhoeffer, writer
A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers. - Robert Quillen, journalist
traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 5:02 PM on Monday, December 25th, 2006
It sounds like an amazing book already...Between work, school, and STBXH's crap I don't have much time left but anything I can do to help
Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...
blujay4 ( member #16209) posted at 1:11 PM on Sunday, September 16th, 2007
I would also love to help out in any way that I can! Reading has been one way that I, as the WS, have been able to make sense of some things.
moveon? ( member #10445) posted at 3:16 PM on Sunday, September 16th, 2007
Obviously I am getting in on this very late, but wanted to know the status now. I can definitely edit/proof read and could contribute to a chapter...maybe a bit on infidelity in NONmarried relationships and the challenges of that...and the stigma that comes along with being THAT person that stayed with someone you "weren't eve married to!" after they cheated...I know there are several of us like that on this site. Just let me know.
Age 48, here for the second time and trying my best not to become jaded...
capri ( member #14940) posted at 7:58 PM on Monday, October 15th, 2007
If you are still looking for writers, please pm me. I do a lot of writing, and have debated whether I have the time for this, but I think I'll make time. Please let me know what you need.
I'm probably too late, but I'd also be willing to do proof-reading.
Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011
HurtingInDenver ( member #15974) posted at 9:21 PM on Friday, October 19th, 2007
I am a graphic designer and would be happy to do the cover design if needed. PM me if I can hlep.
I'm flat out spent, this woman she been driving me to tears
This woman so crazy, I swear I ain't going to touch another one for years -B.Dylan
bayview ( member #17057) posted at 2:05 AM on Sunday, November 18th, 2007
i would love to be a part of this project from the view point of online affairs and second life affairs and the dark dangers of internet and cyber affairs please let me know if i can help would love to do something constructive with the mess ive been handed
2 daughters/teenagers
married 19 years
on my way to divorce
cheerleader ( member #3246) posted at 1:35 AM on Thursday, January 3rd, 2008
just checkign to see hwo this is going...
Well f@#$ me running, sometimes it isnt worth the effort to chew thru the restraints!
Where the is hope there is love.Where there is love there is life.Life is for living
TearInYourHand ( member #14193) posted at 6:35 AM on Thursday, January 3rd, 2008
I'm curious, too. For some reason, I have never noticed this thread in all this time. Would be interested in helping in a small capacity. I have writing / editorial / graphic design skills that are very donatable to this wonderful place.
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Deeply Scared (original poster administrator #2) posted at 3:17 PM on Thursday, January 3rd, 2008
Procupine has stepped back from this project.
It is currently on hold.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
wanting to heal ( member #9942) posted at 2:47 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2008
I agree with adding infidelity in the military. Been there and done that (not the cheater but on the other side.)
Debs ( member #21933) posted at 11:58 PM on Monday, November 16th, 2009
Deeply Scared
Hi I know porc has stepped back but can we kick start it again? The structure is there done by those wonderful pair.. what is needed to get it going?
I lost my heart and found myself!
onestepforward ( member #21589) posted at 7:00 PM on Wednesday, December 9th, 2009
I think it's a fabulous idea. Count me in.
BS (me): 49
STBXWH: 53
(PA's: 1 proven, 1 unproven and probably more; EA's: multiple over 10+ years ... ongoing)
Divorcing.
hardtimes09 ( new member #26884) posted at 5:22 AM on Tuesday, December 22nd, 2009
i was reading these and didnt it occurr to anyone the ideas came out in 2006??? Just a thought not to get ur hopes up for this is all im saying lol!!!
Topic is Sleeping.
