Topic is Sleeping.
Nowna ( new member #31074) posted at 5:01 PM on Saturday, March 19th, 2011
This book helped me understand myself...how my behaviors stemmed from my irrational thinking and what caused the wrong or what I'd consider in hindsight "insane" thinking...
Power of Now by Ekart Tolle
[This message edited by Nowna at 11:02 AM, March 19th (Saturday)]
Me-WW-37
Him-BH-38
D-Day 1-10/12/10 (EA/PA 4 mths prior)
D-Day 2-10/13/10 (EA/PA 14 yrs ago)
Together for 17 yrs
S-6, D-5, D-5
How to end internal suffering: http://www.eckharttolletv.com/eckharttolle.com
WhatHaveIDone?? ( member #30054) posted at 9:27 PM on Saturday, April 2nd, 2011
Great thread! Seems like we have a couple newbies on the Wayward Side who might find this helpful. I continue to work my way thru the list. Most recent finish was "Boundaries - Where you do end and I begin". For someone who has realized how poor my boundaries have been, this was a GREAT book. Highly recommend.
Fallen (original poster member #4313) posted at 8:28 PM on Saturday, April 9th, 2011
I added another book to the list: The Four Agreements. It was so helpful with my control and esteem issues.
You can't heal what you won't feel.
"There would be no grand absolution, only forgiveness meted out in these precious sips. It would well up from his heart in spoonfuls, and he would feed it to me. And it would be enough."
Fightingspirit ( member #31652) posted at 12:38 PM on Tuesday, April 12th, 2011
[This message edited by Fightingspirit at 6:40 AM, April 12th (Tuesday)]
BW 37
WS Who cares...
DD 3 yrs old
DDAY1 2/17/11
DDAY2 3/11/11
DDAY3 6/26/11
DDAY4 8/2011
Divorce finalized 7/2012
Fallen (original poster member #4313) posted at 6:02 AM on Friday, April 22nd, 2011
You can't heal what you won't feel.
"There would be no grand absolution, only forgiveness meted out in these precious sips. It would well up from his heart in spoonfuls, and he would feed it to me. And it would be enough."
Fallen (original poster member #4313) posted at 5:45 AM on Monday, July 4th, 2011
Bumping for newbies. 
You can't heal what you won't feel.
"There would be no grand absolution, only forgiveness meted out in these precious sips. It would well up from his heart in spoonfuls, and he would feed it to me. And it would be enough."
helpemegetoverit ( member #30242) posted at 2:26 PM on Tuesday, July 12th, 2011
I just ordered a few. A friend who went through this actually gave us a lot of them after DDay1 and I read....but was in such a heavy fog it didn't do any good.
Hoping for better this time!
Me: WW
Him: BH
"You don't get to choose if you get hurt in this world...but you do have some say in who hurts you."
John Green
Fallen (original poster member #4313) posted at 7:37 PM on Sunday, August 21st, 2011
You can't heal what you won't feel.
"There would be no grand absolution, only forgiveness meted out in these precious sips. It would well up from his heart in spoonfuls, and he would feed it to me. And it would be enough."
beautifulmess ( member #32130) posted at 8:01 PM on Sunday, August 21st, 2011
Didn't see this book listed
Healing the shame that binds you
It is a slow read very detailed but I am learning so much about myself and my family history that sort of payed the ground work for ms to get where I am
Great topic lots of books I don't yet have on my list to read thanks
We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures.
Hope24 ( member #9344) posted at 10:34 PM on Wednesday, September 21st, 2011
Bump
She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.
Louise2011 ( member #33383) posted at 10:37 PM on Wednesday, September 21st, 2011
BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 8:17 PM on Saturday, October 8th, 2011
Fallen (original poster member #4313) posted at 3:40 AM on Thursday, October 27th, 2011
for so_wrong
You can't heal what you won't feel.
"There would be no grand absolution, only forgiveness meted out in these precious sips. It would well up from his heart in spoonfuls, and he would feed it to me. And it would be enough."
so-wrong ( member #33653) posted at 3:55 PM on Thursday, October 27th, 2011
Thanks so much! This list is almost overwhelming ......
I think for me ..... i need to work on understanding me so the boundaries book sounds interesting.
Many of the WS also mention how can I forgive..... and that it helps understand BS pain so I might try that as well.....
Lastly the 5 apology languages.....
- I made some really bad choices and now I need to make it right. And along the way, I will make me better too.....
wincings_sparkle ( member #27129) posted at 1:36 AM on Friday, October 28th, 2011
"Beauty from Ashes" by Joyce Meyer was instrumental for me. I wish I had read it years ago.
"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light
Sandcrab ( member #10067) posted at 3:48 PM on Tuesday, November 22nd, 2011
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Sandcrab ( member #10067) posted at 8:19 PM on Thursday, December 15th, 2011
bumping again 
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Sandcrab ( member #10067) posted at 4:10 AM on Tuesday, January 24th, 2012
Bump
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BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 8:43 PM on Saturday, February 4th, 2012
Sandcrab ( member #10067) posted at 6:12 PM on Thursday, February 23rd, 2012
I ♥ LostJim
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