EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 7:46 AM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11
We’re going to make it.
JulieMarie ( member #60683) posted at 12:37 PM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
I read this when I first came to SI just reading not really absorbing (partly because I was disoriented at being caught and partly because I was reading so much as a way to find the magic cure for my husband) I reread and absorbed it this time around so thank you whoever put this at the top. I needed this so bad today.
Me: 37 WW
Him: 44 BH
DDay 1: 05/09/2012
DDay 2: 09/09/2017
DS: 24,18,13,12
DD: 22
DG: 3
"She wears her strength and darkness equally well, the girl has always been half goddess, half hell"
Jimmy1962 ( member #59923) posted at 1:42 AM on Tuesday, November 14th, 2017
DDay 7-20-17 Found about 10 month physical affair that my wife had back in 97 & 98
I thought that I was going to die!
Trying to reconcile.
Infidelity is to marriage as Roundup is to plants.
EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 10:37 PM on Sunday, December 3rd, 2017
Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11
We’re going to make it.
EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 4:41 PM on Tuesday, December 5th, 2017
Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11
We’re going to make it.
BSisRight ( member #61549) posted at 5:27 PM on Tuesday, December 5th, 2017
BS here. This post really hit me.
I can't imagine my WH ever doing most of the things on that list sincerely. He's all about the deflecting.
I hope many of the WS's here do actually follow through with this.
EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 3:29 AM on Saturday, December 9th, 2017
Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11
We’re going to make it.
EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 1:05 AM on Wednesday, December 20th, 2017
Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11
We’re going to make it.
EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 4:26 AM on Saturday, December 23rd, 2017
Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11
We’re going to make it.
mojorisin ( new member #61886) posted at 1:50 AM on Wednesday, December 27th, 2017
I appreciate that this keeps getting bumped as it is a great reminder for all waywards like myself. Its also unfortunate that the need to bump it never ends!
WH (me) - 49
BH - 46
D-Day: 29 Oct.17
TT: Completely revealed everything 9 Dec. and 13 Dec.
You're the best thing about me
The best things are easy to destroy
EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 11:48 PM on Sunday, December 31st, 2017
Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11
We’re going to make it.
Mamacesto ( member #61938) posted at 3:59 PM on Monday, January 1st, 2018
Thank you for posting this Hufi-Pufi. I am printing it out for my WH to read. May even highlight some of it :)
Me - BW -51 (at time of A)
WH - 59 (at time of A)
OW - 42 (at time of A)
D-Day #1 EA/PA 10-02-17;
D-Day #2 EA 10-14-18
M - 24 yrs (at time of A)
...attempting R
EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 1:53 AM on Thursday, January 4th, 2018
Bumped for RemorsefulSpouse
Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11
We’re going to make it.
EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 10:08 PM on Thursday, January 11th, 2018
Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11
We’re going to make it.
EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 1:19 AM on Saturday, January 13th, 2018
Bumped for StupidandBroken
Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11
We’re going to make it.
EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 3:37 AM on Monday, January 15th, 2018
Bumped for DrowningInBlue
Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11
We’re going to make it.
EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 4:36 AM on Thursday, January 25th, 2018
Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11
We’re going to make it.
EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 12:14 AM on Saturday, January 27th, 2018
Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11
We’re going to make it.
EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 4:09 AM on Saturday, January 27th, 2018
Bumped for RepentantPaladin.
Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11
We’re going to make it.
EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 5:50 PM on Saturday, January 27th, 2018
Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11
We’re going to make it.
