sad12008 ( member #18179) posted at 5:40 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Still December 11th...comes around faster & faster w/each passing year!
Thanks BR 
You can't fill a cup with no bottom.
need_hope ( member #23989) posted at 8:37 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Still here...still Oct. 7th.
Me - happily engaged to a wonderful man
XWS - no longer matters
Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.
Don't fuck with me, I fuck back.
OneFootForward ( member #39136) posted at 9:03 PM on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013
Me: 42 BS
Her: 41 EMA
Married: 16 years
D-Day#1: 04/17/13
D-Day#2: 05/8/13
Children: 9,5 (girls)
Om: High School Flame
"Marital problems doesn't make someone a cheater just like financial problems doesn't make someone a thief"
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 11:11 PM on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
SurprisinglyOkay ( member #36684) posted at 2:53 AM on Friday, May 3rd, 2013
FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children
"Your secrets keep you sick"
Too_Trusting ( member #99) posted at 1:07 AM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013
"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 4:02 AM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
phoenixrivers ( member #38314) posted at 2:38 PM on Saturday, May 11th, 2013
Me: xBetrayedBF (xBBF)
Her: xWaywardGF (xWGF)
TT: 12/21/12
Splitsville: 1/6/13
DDay: 7/20/13
Done: 8/16/14
"Nobody knows anybody...not that well." Tom Reagan, "Miller's Crossing"
curiouswiz ( member #34405) posted at 1:29 PM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
Well, gall dang it! I'll be 60 this June 25!
Oh nooo..... 
Elaine2012 ( member #36099) posted at 10:12 PM on Friday, May 17th, 2013
Me- 60 ish
WH-no longer relevant
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 3 SIL, 6 grandchildren
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 2:05 PM on Sunday, May 19th, 2013
Crap. 59 today... 
How did that happen?
Me-BS-65 in May<BR />HIM-SAFWH-68<BR />I just wanted a normal life.<BR />Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
whatabummer ( new member #38825) posted at 4:12 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 3:18 AM on Friday, May 31st, 2013
UPdated!! 
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
ninebark ( member #24534) posted at 12:06 PM on Friday, May 31st, 2013
Today ...29 with 12 years experience...lol
BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.
fourever ( member #30631) posted at 2:34 PM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013
56 today, think I'll pick another number and just keep having anniversaries of that. Say, 36 maybe.
In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.
Always, tell the other BS! Always!
"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!
merrmeade ( new member #36180) posted at 2:01 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013
Somehow I haven't really gotten hooked in here the way I have been on Loveshack but today (June 5) - my birthday - I happened to see a PM I got some months ago. The message shocked me in its similarity to the status of my growth post-A.
I started poking around again and saw this thread. Happy birthday to me! This is better than the lies and insincerity around me.
[This message edited by merrmeade at 8:07 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)]
Aren't we all a work in progress?
spldbrt614 ( new member #39467) posted at 9:12 PM on Thursday, June 6th, 2013
FightingBack ( member #34770) posted at 3:34 AM on Sunday, June 9th, 2013
Me 53
WH 58
Married 25 years
4 children S30,D24, S23,S21
D-Day Nov. 29, 2011
15 year affair with married employee.
Together trying to make sense of it all!
huRtZ413 ( member #39214) posted at 6:20 PM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
me_BW
him_WH
I'M ON THE FENCE
toomanyregrets ( member #37740) posted at 5:24 PM on Friday, June 28th, 2013
July 8.
3 more years and I can retire and work at Walmart as a greeter. Beats the job I have now.
BH - 66 - Retired
fWW - 62
"Affairs are not mistakes, they are a series of deliberate choices." - CrappyLife
"Regret is when you realize you broke your own heart.
Remorse is when you realize you broke someone else's." - Bla
