sadone29 ( member #38597) posted at 4:55 AM on Friday, March 8th, 2013
DDay Feb. 28, 2013
"It is an act of self-respect and preservation to not forgive."
He finally moved out only because I became on obstacle in his new affair.
41andthankful ( member #38650) posted at 8:03 PM on Friday, March 8th, 2013
March 16th 
brokensunflower ( member #38674) posted at 11:15 PM on Tuesday, March 12th, 2013
me 34
him 34
7 wonderful kids 14 yrs 10 yrs 7 yrs 6 yrs and 4 yrs 2yr ..and new baby
married 15years together for 12
my give a damn is busted
dlmos ( member #36839) posted at 4:39 AM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
BH (32)
DS - 7, DD - 6
Divorced
keeponkeepingon ( member #32935) posted at 5:07 PM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
Today is my birthday! Happy birthday to me! Another day of disappointment.....
"I know you and you know me and I know you can see. So help me get my way back to you"
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 3:29 AM on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013
So many new march birthdays, I had to do them today!
Check for yours if you mentioned one!
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
MilitaryFairy ( new member #38762) posted at 7:38 AM on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013
Would you still call them Heroes if you knew how they treated their spouses?
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 7:49 AM on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
Stillhurting1977 ( member #37247) posted at 7:52 AM on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013
I am April 17 and I will be 29! Kidding, lol. I'll be 36
D day Sept 2011
D Day # 2 March 15, 2013 (he never stopped the first affair, it went underground)
Me BW 36
Him WH 37
One little guy: 26 months
Status: Seperated, Divorcing
" Noone can make you feel inferior without your consent" Eleanor Ro
pizzalover ( member #38336) posted at 12:21 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013
Trying to rebuild each day
Me - WW 41
Him - BH 41 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - sweet cats
Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
D-Day - 1/24/13
Affair started 5/09
MYBOYSMOM ( member #26318) posted at 4:27 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013
Tomorrow, March 28, I'll turn 50. I have to say that this bday will be immensely better than number 40!
BW 49(me)
WH - doesn't matter anymore
Married: 23 years; DS18, DS16
D-Day: 9/1/2009, D:12/21/2009
"It's a new dawn, It's a new day, It's a new life, for me, and I'm feeling good..." Michael Buble
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 1:18 AM on Sunday, March 31st, 2013
Updated as of March 30
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
Crumbled324 ( member #33902) posted at 12:00 PM on Thursday, April 4th, 2013
45 today.
2 years ago a little less than 2 weeks after DDay I spent my birthday sitting in a Bankruptsy Attourny's office and all I could think about was how the hell did my life get here?
This year R is going well, and it looks like we are going to be able to keep the house. Things CAN get better.
BH: 47
fWW: 46
Beautiful 9 year old daughter
Married 23 years, Together 29 - High School Sweethearts
Reconciling
Save yourself. I've taken off my cape, and the only thing the S on my chest stands for is SURVIVNG this.
Stronglost9977 ( new member #39027) posted at 10:44 PM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013
heyjules2012 ( new member #38349) posted at 4:19 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
My bday is June 5. It will be a tough one to get thru as I share same month as OW.
BS(me)38 WH(him)38
D-Day 12/1/12
Together 15, married 11
Trying to R
BetrayedinWIHusb ( member #11999) posted at 7:04 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013
January 14......many, many years ago 
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 2:39 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
It's that time again!
Get your entries in soon if you have May birthdays!
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 11:56 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Updating my birthday: 8/8/1984--that's right; I'm only 29. Stop laughing. 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Laura28 ( member #28997) posted at 12:14 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Hi BR
Thanks so much for organising this thread 
My birthday is listed as the 17th August (1956 but don't tell anyone 
)
I'm actually the 18th.
But then again, when it falls in Oz on the 18th it is actually the 17th in the US.
So if my birthday really falls on the 18th but you list it as the 17th, my Oz friends will wish me happy birthday a day early and my US and UK friends on the day.
Mmmmm. What to do????
Just joshing.
I really don't mind either way. It is such a great thing for you to do.
Thanks and BIG HUGS
Laura
Married 42yrs Me BW 68Yrs Him F?WH 70yrs OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted. Dday May 28 2010. OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years). OW2 2002(8yrs PA). OW3 2009(1Yr PA). Others?? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck 'em"
Chria ( member #14090) posted at 1:05 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
July 29th. I will be 21 (again)
The odds are greatly against you being immensely smarter than everyone else in the field. If your analysis says your terminal velocity is twice the speed of light, the chances are better that you've screwed up than you've invented warp drive.
