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BearlyBreathing (original poster member #55075) posted at 8:57 AM on Monday, January 22nd, 2018
How To Break Your Addiction To A Person By Howard Halpern, PHD
Anyone else read this? This is really helping me organize my thoughts, although the phrase “infant attachment” creeps me out. I am not sure i buy into the theory that these traits/attachments are from infancy, but the behavior part and how to separate from those behaviors resonates with me.
Anyone else read this? Thoughts?
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
sewardak ( member #50617) posted at 2:11 PM on Monday, January 22nd, 2018
I can think of many people who need to read this.
mamazen ( member #42137) posted at 12:51 AM on Tuesday, February 20th, 2018
I read this over 25 years ago while going through a divorce----it helped me tremendously.
And I read it again recently while going through this recent shitstorm! You know how we say we are going to learn from our mistakes and all? Well, the universe is having a good ole chuckle now. The book's message applied (again).
Hopefully this will have been the last time I read that one. LOL
mamazen
me 57
WH 58
married 19 years
separated since 3/2013 (in house until 8/2013)
D FINAL! Sept 10 2014
D-day Dec 21 2013 (after separation)
2 sons 17 and 13
OW = family friend and WH work colleague, going on m
Itiswell2015 ( member #49813) posted at 4:47 AM on Friday, March 2nd, 2018
I loved the book. i could relate a lot with the book. i wish though that it provided more on steps of breaking the addiction .
Me: BS (41)Him: (42)Married 11 years,2 Daughters
dd1 04/11 claimed ONS
dd2 11/2014.Claimed ONS
dd3 09/15: found out more than 40 women/prostitutes.
dd4: 08/ 2017: saw old sextape from 2015 made before discovery
Dd5:11/2023: his
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