Topic is Sleeping.
CincyKid (original poster member #57948) posted at 10:18 PM on Friday, May 1st, 2020
This darn virus and the lockdown. Look what it caused! Just kidding. I’m thrilled my sunshine girl is pregnant again. A little brother or sister for DD who is currently staying with us hopefully until fall, and little sunshine who is as adorable as she can be! Life is good. If you’re hurting know this. You won’t always hurt. The sun will shine again. Don’t close your heart.
Betrayed, life over...
Life goes on...
Met sunshine girl, fell in love...
Reconnected with wonderful DD...
Married sunshine girl, happy as can be!!!
3kids30years ( member #38879) posted at 10:22 PM on Friday, May 1st, 2020
Congratulations!!!!
What an awesome post. 
BW - 52 on Dday
WH - 53 on Dday
DDay - 3/2/13 - 2:07pm 2+ year EA/PA
TT until 2016 - why do they do that?
Trust is earned, respect is given, & loyalty is demonstrated. Betrayal of any one is to loose all three.
TX1995 ( member #58175) posted at 11:01 PM on Friday, May 1st, 2020
Congratulations!
I'm the BS. WH had an EA/PA with a cOW. DDay was 4/17. Working on R. Married 15 years and together 20 at DDay.
DDay #2 and #3 6/19. Grew a conscience and admitted a full blown physical affair.
Current and forever status is reconciling. I don't
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 11:37 PM on Friday, May 1st, 2020
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 1:15 AM on Saturday, May 2nd, 2020
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Cooley2here ( member #62939) posted at 1:35 AM on Saturday, May 2nd, 2020
I looove stories like this. Congratulations!
When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Elvis
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 3:24 AM on Saturday, May 2nd, 2020
Congratulations! For all the predictions of Corona babies, yours is the first announcement I've seen firsthand. So lovely to read happy news. 
Marz ( member #60895) posted at 3:30 AM on Saturday, May 2nd, 2020
Congrats !!!!!!
How’s the move going for you?
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 3:48 AM on Saturday, May 2nd, 2020
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 4:10 AM on Saturday, May 2nd, 2020
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
CincyKid (original poster member #57948) posted at 4:36 AM on Saturday, May 2nd, 2020
Thanks everyone! I never dreamed I could be this happy again. There were some really dark times. I was alone, full of hate, rage, sadness, and depression. I literally wanted to die every day. Now I’m as happy as anyone can be. If I could say just one thing to people that are newly in this situation it’s that some day the sun will shine again. Keep your heart open.
BraveSirRobin, truth be told we started trying in January before the lockdowns. We’re thrilled. Good luck to everyone!
[This message edited by CincyKid at 11:00 PM, May 1st (Friday)]
Betrayed, life over...
Life goes on...
Met sunshine girl, fell in love...
Reconnected with wonderful DD...
Married sunshine girl, happy as can be!!!
rambler ( member #43747) posted at 5:04 AM on Saturday, May 2nd, 2020
It is amazing how far you have come. Congrats.
Shockedmom ( member #44708) posted at 7:33 AM on Sunday, May 3rd, 2020
Congratulations! You sound fully healed, happy and thriving.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 12:58 PM on Sunday, May 3rd, 2020
Great news. Thanks for the post. All the best to you.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 11 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 6:19 PM on Sunday, May 3rd, 2020
That is awesome. Thanks for updating this virtual family. It brightens the day and DD is there, too. Fabulous.
BH(me)72(now); XWW 64; M 42 yrsDDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW 4 years; "dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, liesSeparated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020
josiep ( member #58593) posted at 8:19 PM on Monday, May 4th, 2020
Wow, what perfect timing for me to see this. Yours was one of the first stories I read and then followed when I joined S.I. I was in so much pain but when I went to bed at night, I cried for you because the cruelty of what your WW and her family had done to you was unspeakable. And, to be honest, I didn't think it would be possible for you or I to ever be happy again.
But here you are, the bearer of MORE good news that just makes me want to smile and do a happy dance and be glad to have been wrong about finding happiness after the worst kind of betrayal. You have been an inspiration and I'm just so happy for you.
Meanwhile, yesterday was the 3rd Anniversary of the Rat Bastard leaving and tomorrow is the 3rd Anniversary of me joining S.I. So that's why your timing is so perfect.
Congratulations to you!
BW, was 67; now 74; M 45 yrs., T 49 yrs.DDay#1, 1982; DDay#2, May, 2017. D July, 2017
northeasternarea ( member #43214) posted at 12:50 AM on Tuesday, May 5th, 2020
The only person you can change is yourself.
hopefull77 ( member #43221) posted at 12:53 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2020
me-BS him-WS
" I will not define myself by what went wrong yesterday when I can draw upon Life and Love right now."
Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 1:28 PM on Thursday, May 7th, 2020
Congratulations to you and Sunshine!
Me-58 FWH-60 Married 40 years 9/2/2023 grown daughters-40&36.14yo GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); 12yo GD & 7yo GD(DD36). D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 7:55 AM on Sunday, May 10th, 2020
Congratulations 🎈 to the whole family!
Topic is Sleeping.
