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ISurvivedSoFar ( member #56915) posted at 12:43 PM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
NTV, I'm so very sorry to hear this. Sending lots and lots of caring and healing vibes to you. (((NTV)))
DDay Nov '16
Me: BS, a.k.a. MommaDom, Him: WS
2 DD's: one adult, one teen,1 DS: adult
Surviving means we promise ourselves we will get to the point where we can receive love and give love again.
Hurtm ( member #41102) posted at 1:02 PM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
So sorry for your loss NTV
Me: 36 and awesome (now 38)
Him: 37 and a douche (otherwise known as DB)
DD day October 17th (my birthday, lucky me)
Married 9 years, together 14
DS 8, DD 5
Finally officially divorced after almost 4 years
78monte ( member #72572) posted at 2:10 PM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
My condolences NTV, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
ChewedMeUp ( member #8008) posted at 3:00 PM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
BS - over 40
DivorcED, finally.
2 Kids
foreverlabeled ( member #52070) posted at 3:27 PM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your wife. I hope for you a healing heart in due time.
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 3:43 PM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
..can't find words for the shock.. 
I can't recall if you have kids...if you do, my heart goes out to them also, for their loss.
Sending mojo NTV...and prayers to the Big Guy..to help guide you through this.
smy 
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think!Me 77 Her 73 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
Myname ( member #23138) posted at 4:15 PM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
I am so sorry.
DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 45
12-08-10: S
Divorced and moved on with my life.
Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 8:18 PM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
I am very sorry for your loss.
"Because I deserve better"
annb ( member #22386) posted at 8:20 PM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
So sorry. My condolences to you and your family.
Dorothy123 ( member #53116) posted at 8:52 PM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
So sorry NTV.
Hugs, prayers and mojo.
"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.
Squish ( member #79546) posted at 9:15 PM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending positive mojo and prayers your way.
lieshurt ( Administrator #14003) posted at 10:21 PM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
I'm so sorry to hear this. You have my sincerest condolences. (((NTV)))
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
Repossessed ( member #79544) posted at 10:28 PM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
Here to keep myself mindful that I don't always see what actually is. I certainly didn't when I married her.
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 11:13 PM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
So sorry to hear/see this news. Prayers to you.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
outofsorts ( member #70701) posted at 11:16 PM on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022
I am so, so sorry NTV
You must be in so much shock right now....
You are in my thoughts....
Me(BW): 40WH: 40 Married 7 years, together 20.
Dday 2/22/19 Reconciling
fareast ( Moderator #61555) posted at 1:32 AM on Wednesday, February 23rd, 2022
Sincere condolences. Very sorry to learn of your loss.
Never bother with things in your rearview mirror. Your best days are on the road in front of you.
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 3:11 AM on Wednesday, February 23rd, 2022
Ohhh nooo . My deepest condolences and prayers for y'all my friend (((HUGS))).
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
Oldwounds ( member #54486) posted at 4:01 AM on Wednesday, February 23rd, 2022
I’m very sorry to hear NTV.
Prayers and mojo — on the way.
Married 36+ years, together 41+ years
Two awesome adult sons.
Dday 6/16 4-year LTA Survived.
M Restored
"It is better to conquer our grief than to deceive it." — Seneca
Mel61 ( member #43697) posted at 4:22 AM on Wednesday, February 23rd, 2022
My prayers for you and your families.
Trying to hold it together
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 4:39 AM on Wednesday, February 23rd, 2022
So very sorry. Prayers for you and your family.
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
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