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Notthevictem (original poster member #44389) posted at 5:19 AM on Sunday, April 10th, 2022
Hey everyone! I don't think I've ever made it to a g2g yet, but was thinking about it and a virtual G2G sounds easily doable now that so many folks have zoom or other videoconferencing capabilities on their phones.
Now, I'll be the first to admit that orchestrating such an event is beyond my meager capabilities. I'm probably better suited for possible attendee status haha.
But I thought I'd throw the idea out there just in case its something someone else could take and run with.
Here's hoping!
[This message edited by Notthevictem at 5:19 AM, Sunday, April 10th]
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 9:54 PM on Sunday, April 10th, 2022
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Myname ( member #23138) posted at 2:47 AM on Monday, April 11th, 2022
I think this is a really good idea. How was this never thought of before?
DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 45
12-08-10: S
Divorced and moved on with my life.
Notthevictem (original poster member #44389) posted at 10:03 PM on Monday, April 11th, 2022
Bearly, you feel like being coordinator?
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 10:17 PM on Monday, April 11th, 2022
I am totally up for this! What a great idea!
And yeah why didnt I think of this...
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:00 PM on Tuesday, April 12th, 2022
This has been discussed. I believe security was the big obstacle. It may be possible to have a secure g2g, but I don't know how.
My HS class gets together via Zoom every 3 months or so, but it's set up by a guy from MIT, and security isn't an issue anyway.
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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 4:46 PM on Tuesday, April 12th, 2022
We can set up the meeting to be secure enough —password protected, etc.
Give me a couple days to get a few balls I’m juggling set and then I will come back with some ideas.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Notthevictem (original poster member #44389) posted at 7:55 PM on Tuesday, April 12th, 2022
I'm trying very hard right now not to post a ball juggling joke...
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 9:15 PM on Tuesday, April 12th, 2022
We have done zoom meetings with dd's doctor amd thats secure since they have to protect patient confidentiality. It can be done. Not sure about logistics of cross border issues though. Would I be able to attend one set up in the U.S.? Or is the virtual world border free?
NTV, have you ever tried juggling the balls of a goat? The kids and I were just talking about goat balls when herding my group back to their pen...amazing the things the kids pick up on....like how big goat balls are.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 11:49 PM on Tuesday, April 12th, 2022
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 11 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
Notthevictem (original poster member #44389) posted at 1:49 AM on Wednesday, April 13th, 2022
Love this idea!!!!
Juggling goat balls?
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
SadieMae ( member #42986) posted at 6:07 PM on Wednesday, April 13th, 2022
I would love to attend a virtual g2g.
For the past 2 years, I've been pretty much working on Zoom daily. I'm happy to help.
Me: BW D-day 3/9/2014
TT until 6/2016
TT again Fall 2020
Yay! A new D-Day on 11/8/2023 WTAF
Notthevictem (original poster member #44389) posted at 6:26 AM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2022
Checking in so it stays on folks' radar.
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 7:58 PM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2022
Still on my radar. Minus the goat balls lol
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 3:05 AM on Thursday, April 21st, 2022
So what day of the week and time works best?
Weekend or weekday?
I can’t do anything early than 5pm PDT on weekdays so anyone on the east coast— will that work for you?
Once we have a time I can send a link thru DMs.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Notthevictem (original poster member #44389) posted at 3:22 AM on Thursday, April 21st, 2022
I'm on the west coast, most times work for me, I think. Count me in.
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 4:04 AM on Thursday, April 21st, 2022
I feel dumb. I had to look it up. I'm EST so if it's 5pm PDT then it's 8pm my time. Still works for me. I'm usually awake past midnight.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 6:07 AM on Thursday, April 21st, 2022
If I'm not too late count me in.
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 3:04 PM on Saturday, April 23rd, 2022
I thought when this came up before MH came on and squashed the idea. There was more to it, but that's all I remember about it.
Is it OK to do now?
Failure is success if we learn from it.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 3:11 PM on Saturday, April 23rd, 2022
Here's what MH said back in 2020-
In normal times, when we aren't being held hostage by a virus, we allow the organizing of G2Gs in the Fun & Games forum. However a virtual meeting takes away a lot of the responsibilities that a G2G host goes through to ensure the safety of the guests.
It is important for me to emphasize that we prioritize your security and anonymity here. We cannot allow you to openly organize a virtual meeting using SI. There are too many potential problems that could backfire and distract us from our cause.
I want to caution everyone about sharing too much information on the forums or using the private message feature. While we make every effort to safeguard the community, only you can protect your yourself on the internet.
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Topic is Sleeping.