Topic is Sleeping.
crazyblindsided (original poster member #35215) posted at 5:29 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2022
I never thought I would feel this way again. The man I have been dating for the last 8 months asked me to be his full time GF and I couldn't be happier. He is nothing like my ex and is super emotional just like me and I hope that our love just continues to grow stronger. We have taken our time and it has been worth it. We like the same music and enjoy just sitting next to each other for hours on end. He even cooks breakfast for me lol. I am really really happy. I wish this for all of us who have been hurt and betrayed. This hope for love again has renewed me.
There is life after infidelity and it is awesome 
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 6:07 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2022
So happy for you. Glad to read an upbeat post.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 6:14 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2022
(((CBS)))
I am so happy for you! You deserve this!!
"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger
"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 6:20 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2022
I LOVE THIS 
!!!
Thank you so much for sharing !!!
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
DailyGratitude ( member #79494) posted at 7:16 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2022
CB
Wow i am so so happy to read your post!!!!
So happy and excited for you!
May you continue to experience love and happiness!
Me: BW mid 50’sHim: WH late 50’sMarrried 25 yearsDday: EA 2002 PA 9/2021Divorce 10/2021 (per wh’s request) WH left to be with AP
DailyGratitude ( member #79494) posted at 7:35 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2022
CB
I went back and read some of your old posts. I can’t even begin to tell you how happy I am for you that you found love and joy you so deserve. You endured so much trauma and endured with courage and resolve.
Many of your posts sounded like I wrote them. Every fear, every set back, every emotion you wrote about are what I feel. It’s as if I am walking the exact same path you walked on.
Thank you for your uplifting post!
Me: BW mid 50’sHim: WH late 50’sMarrried 25 yearsDday: EA 2002 PA 9/2021Divorce 10/2021 (per wh’s request) WH left to be with AP
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 10:05 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2022
CBS, your post made my day. So happy for you!
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
OwningItNow ( member #52288) posted at 12:25 AM on Saturday, July 9th, 2022
Your happiness is much deserved! Enjoy. The world feels a little less wrong when good things happen to good people. 
me: BS/WS h: WS/BS
Reject the rejector. Do not reject yourself.
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 1:21 AM on Saturday, July 9th, 2022
countrydirt ( member #55758) posted at 5:39 AM on Sunday, July 10th, 2022
3 adult sonsMarried 32 years. DDay1 - June 2016, DDay 2 - April 2017, Final DDay - May 2020. Divorced - January 2021
Life is Good!
Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 2:34 PM on Monday, July 11th, 2022
I am so happy for you, CBS! You deserve every happiness!
Hugs!
2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 4:34 PM on Monday, July 11th, 2022
You have been through so much. Very happy for you!!!!
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
crazyblindsided (original poster member #35215) posted at 5:49 PM on Monday, July 11th, 2022
Thank you all so much! It feels so good to be this happy again and free from the shackles of a really bad marriage.
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 4:21 AM on Tuesday, July 12th, 2022
Really happy for you!!
Hope things continue to get better and better.
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
DevastatedDee ( member #59873) posted at 3:14 PM on Tuesday, July 12th, 2022
YAY!!! You deserve happiness and love! It is so amazing to watch you truly live again!
DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).
barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 5:46 PM on Wednesday, July 13th, 2022
Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.
Summertime22 ( member #79796) posted at 4:58 AM on Thursday, July 14th, 2022
I am so very happy for you!!
Tallgirl ( member #64088) posted at 6:32 AM on Thursday, July 14th, 2022
Sunny69 ( member #65876) posted at 6:29 PM on Thursday, July 14th, 2022
I can't tell you how pleased I am to read this. Betrayed spouses endure so much trying to work through a betrayal. To have gone through it and enjoy being on the other side, must be liberating. I think 'free of the shackles of infidelity' sums it up perfectly. Enjoy, and I hope it keeps working out for you 😁
Karmafan ( member #53810) posted at 6:27 PM on Monday, July 25th, 2022
Your post gives us all hope Crazy, that there is a light at the end of the tunnel no matter how far it may seem !
Me 48 XWH Irrelevant D-day 23 Feb 163 amazing, resilient kids
You are not a drop in the Ocean, you are the entire Ocean in a drop
Topic is Sleeping.
