Topic is Sleeping.
Sisyphus68 (original poster new member #66462) posted at 9:02 PM on Wednesday, June 14th, 2023
While it sucks to be back in this situation, i'm glad to have SI as a valuable resource and community. To the newbies out there, definitely read the posts from the long timers. They really know what they are talking about. This time around I have the tools and the strategies to deal with this stunning turn of events without being consumed by it. Focus on you, set the boundaries and expectations, know what you will and won't accept and be ok with not being in control of the situation but in control of your choices, behaviors and actions. And know that while we do share in the problems in a marriage, we don't own any of the WS choices to stray. Betrayal is sadly so common these days. Keep coming back and know that there are people here that genuinely care about you, have shared a similar story, and not just survived...but thrived.
I'll have more to share soon. Still working on Dday issues. I'll be back :)
swoned ( member #54719) posted at 9:16 PM on Wednesday, June 14th, 2023
*sigh*
make sure to get your SI punch card punched. :(
D-Day 6/22/16Ended in Divorce 07/02/18Remarried.
annb ( member #22386) posted at 12:41 AM on Thursday, June 15th, 2023
Post your story when you are ready. Ugh.
Hurthalo ( member #41782) posted at 1:08 AM on Thursday, June 15th, 2023
Bloody hell, having a 2nd D-Day is bad enough - I can't imagine having to go through it with another partner.
Stay strong, and we'll be here when you need to vent.
Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 3:21 AM on Thursday, June 15th, 2023
I'm sorry you've had to return but we are here for you when you are ready to share your new story.
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 3:49 AM on Thursday, June 15th, 2023
Sorry you're back. Infidelity sucks.
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 3:55 AM on Thursday, June 15th, 2023
Sorry you had a need to come back. But welcome back anyway. We’re here when you are ready.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Topic is Sleeping.
