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So I don’t know if I believe in Karma exactly, but I have seen a few things that lean me to believing.
My husband treated me awful during pregnancy it’s when I found out of affair etc. recently I found out that husband told AP about me posting here and she would stalk me here apparently. It’s where I wrote all about my pain and struggles at the time of the affair my complicated pregnancy etc. So she definitely knew how the affair was affecting me.

A few years back I end up finding out (it’s a small small world and the medical field is even smaller) how awful she’s doing single pregnant with 2 other children and working and in school with a situation so similar to mine. She wasn’t married but I guess cheating is cheating. One of her pregnancies I saw her in person when she was ready to deliver at the hospital I worked at. I couldn’t believe my eyes. She looked so bad and no partner in sight. I have seen other things. I often wonder why I got a front row seat to this woman’s misery.

I don’t think it’s karma per se, it’s more like sooner or later if you’re a garbage person who does garbage things, it will catch up with you.

I don't believe in the idea of kharma.

But I do believe that making bad decisions, treating people despicably, and living a reckless, unprincipled life inevitably leads to poor outcomes.

In the case of your OW, my heart breaks for her children.

I think you guys are right. Being a bad person eventually has to catch up.
I just always hear of karma and made me curious.

I want to believe in karma but I don’t know if I do. Too many terrible people seem to live great lives while good people suffer. Not that their lives are actually good, of course, but I just don’t see bad people suffering the same way good people I know have suffered.

While I wish more than anything that bad karma would hit my WH and his AP, I also can’t think of any bad karma that wouldn’t negatively affect my kids, or me. So do I wish bad karma on him if it hurts my kids? I can’t. Which makes it feel inevitable that the people who are terrible will go on to live their best lives while I’m the one who suffers.

If you want to dance, you pay The Piper.

And sooner or later The Piper will come calling.

However you want to phrase it or call it - it all variation on a theme.

I am a huge believer in karma and if you heard me talk you wouldn’t think I was. I still want to go to her house , drag her by her hair and beat the shit out of her and then beat my H ass.

I don’t clearly. I dream about things going wrong in her life , I know what my H did to her really hurt her which doesn’t make me feel good? I mean it’s a double edged sword. It does but then I have to face that he could hurt another person like that and know the whole time he Knew he was.

Back to the question. I found out the OW dad wasn’t doing well and she cried a lot about it to him (during this time my dad had a stroke) he didn’t seem to care at all for me or my dad but was there for her. I recently saw her dad is in a permanent nursing home.
I thought it would make me feel better but idk this situation it doesn’t , I don’t want other people affected by her karma but that isn’t how it works. She has three kids and I’m sure they are affected by it too.

I will say I always want karma to get her but idk , I’m a better person at heart, I wish I wasn’t some days. I don’t think fighting evil with evil wins, I sure wish it did.

Karma is real. It is expressed in a mathematical principle, therefore has to be true and real.

By doing a bad thing, you raise the overall ratio of bad things to good things in the universe, thereby increasing your chances of bad things happening to you. Just that simple.

Karma is a crazy bitch, she only comes after me and usually for shit I haven’t even done yet;). Actually, Karma only works in a fair and just world, if you live in one then I am hopelessly jealous.

Here’s to hoping I do something bad enough to deserve the position that Karma put me in, at least then all of this will be justified.

The OW in my sitch lost her job for doing drugs ( a REALLY good job, she will likely never get a job like that again) and had to move far away to a really expensive city to get another one. This was after I outed her to all her facebook friends and family.