DebraVation (original poster member #51156) posted at 6:40 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2025
I have been divorced nearly a year and am two years out from finding about the (last) affair. I have been doing well I think and hardly think about the ex husband at all.
Today he told me he’s been dating a university friend for a few months and he’s telling the kids tomorrow
It made me feel weird. I don’t want him, but it annoys me that he’s happy and always lands on his feet.
I am doing fine but there’s nobody in the scene for me (and I don’t think I want there to be). But it still feels odd. I know who she is, I don’t know if that makes it feel weirder.
Uurgh.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 6:58 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2025
Yeah, I think that is normal. Just hope she is nice to your kids. Do something special for yourself today.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 7:17 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2025
Yes it's normal. I got this feeling too even though I can't stand my xWS and would never want him back. Eventually it didn't bother me. I mean look at what they get. Plus my xWS and his girlfriend keep breaking up and getting back together again just to split up again 
One day it won't bother you anymore.
fBS/fWS(me):51 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:53 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(21) DS(18)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Divorced 8/8/24
