Topic is Sleeping.
99problems ( member #59373) posted at 2:06 PM on Wednesday, August 18th, 2021
I call him Dim Tim the Flat Earth Wonder Boy, when i call him anything at all.
Not often these days. :)
Got me a new forum name!<BR />Formerly Idiotmcstupid.<BR />I am divorced, so not as much of an idiot now- 4/15/21,
devotedman ( member #45441) posted at 5:52 PM on Wednesday, August 18th, 2021
Chuckles the Dickhead Ass Clown.
Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.
EllaC ( new member #79253) posted at 6:20 PM on Friday, August 20th, 2021
The Young and the Chestless
Venus1 ( member #77144) posted at 5:34 AM on Wednesday, August 25th, 2021
My XWHs AP is named the "5 cent camera whore"! His name is "he who shall not be named". Voldemort reference of course from Harry Potter. Right now saying either of their names gives them too much power. It helps me stay stronger!
Me: BS (39) Him: WS (40) 13.5 years married, 16 years togetherD-day: 1Jan2021 Confronted: 2Jan2021 In process of divorce
ShutterHappy ( member #64318) posted at 5:55 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2021
Although I didn’t have a name in the first few years after D day, I have come to think of the OM as the "QA guy".
Dear SI readers, sadly, my XWW didn’t pass the Quality Assurance test. 
The good news is there are plenty of Quality partners out there, so that story has a happy ending!
Me: BH
Divorced, remarried.
I plan on living forever. So far so good
FairyTaleGone ( member #79059) posted at 2:31 PM on Tuesday, September 14th, 2021
This is a fun one! WH's AP has a nose that looks much like a penis...so I like to call her "D*ck Nose"...I throw out "Your girlfriend" or "your side-piece" when I'm angry...but "d*ck nose" is my favorite!
DDay 1 - 2/19/21 (found out about EA)DDay 2 - 5/22/21 (TT found burner phone)DDay 3 - 6/9/21 (TT found out about PA)
EA/PA ended 3/22/21 -WH went NCWorking on R15yr old DD at home - unfortunately knows way too much
BeeBee64 ( member #54718) posted at 5:35 PM on Friday, October 1st, 2021
Bike Boy - they met in a bicycling club. In his late 50s/early 60s, younger than her, was a bike messenger, and until recently, lived with his mom.
heartbrokeninNC ( member #72472) posted at 11:07 PM on Wednesday, October 6th, 2021
Used to call the AP either the Bearded Troll or POSOM but these days I rarely think about the both of them anymore. Would rather occupy my time thinking about the future than the past.
M-20 T-21DDay: 12/24/2019Separated: 8/22/2020D: 10/11/2021
Me: 52
"Always fear regret more than failure." - Author Unknown
It's time for another name!
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 11:26 PM on Wednesday, October 6th, 2021
the Whores... there were so many of them. Better to give them a generic name.
fBS/fWS(me):51 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:53 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(21) DS(18)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Divorced 8/8/24
78monte ( member #72572) posted at 5:11 PM on Thursday, October 7th, 2021
Thumos ( member #69668) posted at 8:26 PM on Thursday, October 7th, 2021
"Rat Face" - because objectively speaking he has rodentine features. Most people would agree.
"True character is revealed in the choices a human being makes under pressure. The greater the pressure, the deeper the revelation, the truer the choice to the character's essential nature."
BH: 50, WW: 49 Wed: Feb.'96 DDAY1: 12.20.16 DDAY2: 12.23.19
maxricomm ( new member #79388) posted at 9:23 PM on Saturday, October 9th, 2021
POSOM.
Piece of sh_t, other man.
LostInHisFog ( member #78503) posted at 6:36 AM on Sunday, October 10th, 2021
Sadly being petty isn’t beneath me yet.
I call them his "one true love" or "soulmate" because it infuriates him to no end. I dumb the logic right down for him and say they must be soulmates (or his one true love) for him to do what he did to someone he supposedly loves so much he can’t live without.
I ask if he has proposed to one of his true loves yet when I really want to see him blow his top.
They can make as many promises as they want, but if they don't put action behind it, it doesn't mean anything.
I edit because I'm fluent in typo & autocorrect hates me.
thinkingofyall ( new member #45687) posted at 6:15 PM on Wednesday, October 13th, 2021
I call her vudu woman. Never could say her name. She didn't deserve it. But... one day my sister gave me a voodoo doll she had used while going through a parenting settlement. She didn't need it anymore. She had glued a tiny picture of her ex's face onto the little doll.
I did not go that far. I never glued a photo on and I never poked an eyeball or the knee cap. Just held my head high.
But the name has lived on for years and stuck forever. Vudu. The vudu. I'm laughing as I type this out.
IceGold ( new member #79515) posted at 4:23 PM on Thursday, November 4th, 2021
I call her Rachel. Maintaining my dignity makes him feel like an even lower piece of shit. It’s just another reminder that I’m the better person. 
Me= BW married 18 years
Too many DD to want to list
Two wonderful kids that deserve better
Elbell ( member #25814) posted at 5:32 AM on Friday, November 12th, 2021
Which one?! 
12 Years ago: "She who shall not be named"... but that takes awhile to say. So now I just say her name, "Hayley". Too bad that used to be a pretty name.
7-ish years ago when he lost his CAREER over sexting a subordinate employee, he told me his firing was all about a feral cat in the workplace. And since she sent pornographic pictures and even video, it's fitting that she's "Feral Cat".
Currently he's moved out with his gf, he calls her the Landlady. 
No other nickname needed, that works fine.
HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 5:23 PM on Friday, November 12th, 2021
I call her irrelevant.
And she hates it.
But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..
Evertrying ( member #60644) posted at 10:00 PM on Friday, November 12th, 2021
I call her Douche Canoe. My BFF calls her a Slag Cum Dumpster and my BFF's husband says the "Best part of her ran down her Mama's leg",,,,,
BS - 55 on dday
WH - 48 on dday
Dday: 9/1/17
Status: Reconciled
TwoDozen ( member #74796) posted at 8:43 AM on Saturday, November 13th, 2021
Weasel because well he looks like a weasel and he is one
GraceLoves ( member #78769) posted at 11:00 PM on Tuesday, November 16th, 2021
That being said... I used to refer to the OM, who is Native American, and a serial cheater, as "Chief Fuckemwives."
This has actually just made me laugh so loud someone came into the room to see if I was ok! Agree on the race thing, but OMG that's so funny.
I call mine either dogbreath or Aileen Wuornos (the resemblance is uncanny)
BW - DDay Nov 20, LTA during LDR.
In limbo with R. WS very resistant to doing the work, so we're stuck
Topic is Sleeping.
