Topic is Sleeping.
Justsomeguy (original poster member #65583) posted at 11:32 PM on Monday, September 19th, 2022
So my daughter just turned 19 this summer. For you people in the US, that's drinking age here, so she can go to bars now. Well, I asked her if she would be interested in doing two-step lessons with me each week. It's five bucks and I thought it would be fun. I love to dance and needed a reason to get out, as did she. She agreed. So we've been on a couple of lessons.
I tend to only stay for an hour or so after the lesson as my EXWW is usually there after the lesson, smaller town and all, but my daughter said something to me that made me break out in a grin. To preface what she said, I should point out that I try not to encroach on her fun as she does not have a lot of friends. I don't want to cramp her style with her dad hanging around. Anyway, she asked me why I don't like to dance with her. I of course told her that I love doing the lessons and dancing with her, but wanted her to have her space as well. Then she told me that she loved dancing and I was her favorite person to dance with! Then she asked if I would consider staying later on the nights we have lessons. Honestly, I almost broke into tears at that. Yeah, seeing my EXWW is a bit irritating, but we'll worth it with a daughter like that! Wow. On cloud nine.
I'm an oulier in my positions.
Me:57 STBXWW:55 DD#1: false confession of EA Dec. 2016. False R for a year.DD#2: confessed to year long PA Dec. 2 2017 (was about to be outed)Called it off and filed. Denied having an affair in court papers.
Divorced
devotedman ( member #45441) posted at 12:17 AM on Tuesday, September 20th, 2022
Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 1:33 AM on Tuesday, September 20th, 2022
So AWESOME 
!!!
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 1:33 AM on Tuesday, September 20th, 2022
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Charity411 ( member #41033) posted at 2:16 AM on Tuesday, September 20th, 2022
countrydirt ( member #55758) posted at 4:21 AM on Tuesday, September 20th, 2022
Yay! 2 step dancing is so much fun! I took it in college to earn a PE credit that I needed to graduate and ended up helping the instructor teach it throughout Northern Colorado. My teacher friend and I have been dancing a couple of times and have a great time!
[This message edited by countrydirt at 4:23 AM, Tuesday, September 20th]
3 adult sonsMarried 32 years. DDay1 - June 2016, DDay 2 - April 2017, Final DDay - May 2020. Divorced - January 2021
Life is Good!
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 5:13 AM on Tuesday, September 20th, 2022
Wonderful moment. Thanks for sharing.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 11 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
GraceLove ( member #59212) posted at 5:39 AM on Tuesday, September 20th, 2022
Wow! What a great new beginning story. I loved hearing this.
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 12:17 AM on Wednesday, September 21st, 2022
Awesome! Sounds like lots of fun!
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Bingo ( member #72835) posted at 2:38 AM on Wednesday, September 21st, 2022
Simply lovely post.....thank you!
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 3:11 AM on Wednesday, September 21st, 2022
Well there's just nothing better than this is there? Well done, Dad. :)
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 6:14 AM on Wednesday, October 5th, 2022
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 2:39 PM on Wednesday, October 5th, 2022
So sweet.
From a gal with a mostly absent father her entire life....well done!
taken4granted ( member #61971) posted at 4:44 PM on Wednesday, October 5th, 2022
Love it. Best thing I’ve read today.
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." - Mark Twain
Me: Living life! Him: Not my problem anymore
Married 15 yrs.
1 LTA, Many EAs from 2009 - ?
Dday 1 = 6/16/17
Last Dday = 1/4/18
Started loving myself 2018!
MegMeg ( member #79978) posted at 8:52 PM on Wednesday, October 5th, 2022
Thank you for that precious story!
Me: BS | Him: WS | Children: Grown | Married: 36 years at DDay Feb 2021
Topic is Sleeping.
